Week 6 (April 29 – May 5, 2024)

5 weeks, 1 day (April 29)

We had a lazy day today. I made sure not to take too many pictures or videos so I wouldn’t have too much to write or edit either!

A sleepy Game sandwich.

Purple’s Solo Adventure

Purple went on a solo adventure to the lunch place next door. He did great in the carrier, and then I opened it to let him out – if he so chose – while waiting for my food. He came out onto the sidewalk, explored around the carrier and then whined, which was immediately remedied by picking him up. After watching the world go by from my arms – there wasn’t a lot going on, but we saw a cyclist, two small kids running and an adult walking by, a few cars and a motorcycle – he struggled, I put him back down and he explored some more before falling asleep on the cool tiles of the restaurant entry. No complaints on the walk back home either (it’s only a 2-minute walk.)

Purple watching the street on his solo adventure.

Green’s Solo Adventure

Green was the next puppy to go on a solo adventure when I walked to the copy shop to print out this week’s puppy trackers. He did great on the 5-minute walk there, and after getting my prints, I opened his carrier in a quiet side street to give him a chance to explore as well. He came out slowly – this is the first time he has this opportunity on his own, and he wasn’t as quick to explore as he’s been with his siblings around. I wonder if caution is a natural response when by oneself as a young puppy OR if this indicates his fear response has set on.

In any case, he did come out and explored around the carrier. There wasn’t much going on, but on the walk home, we walked parallel to someone with a wheelbarrow and also saw a few cars and a bike.

Crate training

Purple

did great and slept through his 6 minutes.

Red

complained and wanted out. Blue and Black were concerned and tried to get into the closed crate where their brother was screaming at volume level 4. I let him out after his 7 minutes, but not without wondering if I should let him cry it out. I know he’s frustrated because he wants out. I don’t believe he feels abandoned because everyone else is right next to him. I’ve never let a new puppy I crate trained cry it out, but these puppies were older – I built duration and alone time very slowly. With a puppy who’s been separated from everyone they know, it seems cruel to me to let them complain until they give up. On the other hand, imagining to let Red complain until he stops now feels different because I’m convinced he doesn’t feel abandoned. Hrm. We’ll see tomorrow.

In any case, the success of the puppies (for example the fact that Purple slept through his turn and Red didn’t) is, so far, based on the timing of when I started their turns. It’s not that Purple is more comfortable in the carrier than Red; it’s simply that when I put Purple in, everyone was still sound asleep, but soon after I put Red in, everyone started waking up and becoming active – including Red, who at that point didn’t want to stay in the carrier.

Deworming …

Every puppy got another spoon full of strawberry yoghurt laced with dewormer. Sadly, no strawberry yogurt for me today. I need to safe some for their third dose tomorrow!

Mobility, becoming social beings and the senses

The rebeldes are getting FAST when they run and, as of today, have REALLY turned into sharks. Their teeth have been around for a few days, but as of today, their jaws are strong enough to make teeth on skin hurt.

We’ve officially turned into little biting machines!

They’ve also started carrying tennis balls around and playing together with a tennis ball! Social and object play rolled into one!

AND we’ve heard the closest firecrackers we’ve heard so far. Game, Green and Red lifted their heads; everyone else didn’t even wake up. I don’t know what’s going on with Game – she hasn’t been THIS chill around firecrackers in a long time! I wonder what hormonal or other changes are causing this.

Also, here’s a lunch recall to a scatter in the grass! Sometimes, I recall to scatters, sometimes to different plates or containers – I want them to learn to eat out of any container and from any surface. This is a simple stimulus/stimulus pairing – classically conditioning my voice/pup-pup-pup-pup, followed by food. Easy, fast and effective.

5 weeks, 2 days (April 30, 2024)

Social life

This morning’s social play

Solo adventures

Both Blue and Black went on solo adventures today!

Black

joined me on my quest to figure out where to pay a parking fine (I outdid myself and got two in the course of 3 days, thank you very much.)

A note on urban planning (or the lack thereof) in Coyoacán

This town reminds me of the outskirts of Xela. It is urban-sprawly in a way that feels completely arbitrary. There are several streets that have this freeway-town atmosphere where there are businesses to their left and right – reststop-esque eateries and places to fix your flat tires, fruit and juice stands and a lot of surprisingly fast traffic.

Then there are little plazas in places you wouldn’t expect them, and NO plazas in places you would. There is an official center of town, but there are other places that could just as well be it. Government officies are randomly strewn across the city as if someone sprinkled them over the town for decoration.

There is paid parking where you think there wouldn’t be, and free parking where you’d expect it to be paid. The person I paid my fine to liked me and simply cut it in half because … why not.

People don’t seem particularly communicative – the goings on feel rushed. This is not a sleepy town. While in smaller towns, people may stop to let a dog cross the street, here, they will bump into them (at least one person I observed last week did. They saw the dog, slowed down and – gently – bumped into them with their car. The dog was fine.)

There is a lot of food everywhere, and places open and close at random hours. It is A LOT cheaper than Mexico City; I forgot how cheap good streetfood can be!

It’s a good place for puppy raising, especially because of the yard – but it’s too far from what I love about Mexico City, yet too loud, busy and urban for what I love about the middle of nowhere to be a place I’d want to stay more permanently. Most of all though, it’s a place with a very strange (lack of) layout.

Back to Black!

Black screamed at a new noise level – 5 – in the car for about 10 minutes and then calmed down for the rest of our adventure. I carried her around the main plaza with all its goings on and opened the carrier in the gazebo. Black came out after observing for a bit, made her way around the carrier and then got back in. I presented her (held her in my hands) to a helpful freeroamer who wagged and came over to sniff and be sniffed. New dog count for Black – one up!

The lovely fella on the left came over to be Black’s socialization helper.

Right: an unsuccessful attempt at adequatly capturing the center craze and all it’s goings on.

Blue

joined me on my hunt for food. The places I already knew weren’t there or closed, but we found another arbitrary plaza with random food stands and a bunch of children running around. I carried Blue around this plaza so she could see the world while waiting for my quesadillas. On the walk back, we met a friendly freeroamer who, like Black’s helper, kindly assisted in sniffing and being sniffed. Blue came out of her carrier right away when I put it down on the sidewalk and was curious to meet the new dog (who was hoping for a quesadilla.)

Top: Blue and I are waiting for my quesadillas. Bottom: Blue’s socialization helper.

Husbandry and handling

Everyone got the nails on their left back paws done and a round of my handling protocol. They were all completely relaxed – very nice! Their teeth are looking great! Being poked by my pretend needle (a pencil) doesn’t faze them. I wonder if the real needle of the vaccine is going to be very different.

More laced strawberry yoghurt

Everyone enjoyed their third and for now last spoon of yoghurt with dewormer. Only Black didn’t want to eat hers; I smeared it directly into her mouth. This was VERY easy; I assume because I’ve practiced looking at the puppies’ teeth a lot.

Sharky escape artists

This morning, Red and Blue were out in the living room. They had managed to escape the x-pen I set up because this very much doesn’t feel like “my” house. I suspect they managed to climb on Game’s chair and jump down from there – which is quite the jump. I changed the set-up for tonight to make it – hopefully – impossible to escape or break a bone for a few more days.

They all are ankle biters now and their needle sharp teeth are quite painful! I am delighted! The Mals are Malinoising!

Because the cuteness

5 weeks, 3 days (May 1, 2023)

In the middle of the night, the puppies woke me and complained – they usually wake me when they want their late-night/early-morning snack from Game. This time, I opened the door for them along with Game, who wanted to go outside. Every single puppy ran out to the grass and immediately peed out there! Go puppies!!!

The uncreepy duck

Yesterday, I set Creepy Duck into the doorway. Green was the only one who showed curiosity, but I wasn’t sure if the other ones just missed it. So today, I took another stab at having Creepy Duck show up in an unexpected place it hadn’t previously been. Nobody cared … not even Chai! She was the only one who ever found it creepy on the first encounter in my apartment. As Creepy Duck has no more use for us, Game did the sensible thing briefly after this video ended: she shredded it to pieces.

I’ll have to step up my game when it comes to creating The Uncanny!

Solo adventures

Red

Today was Red’s turn again, after he was the first one to go on a solo adventure last week! We walked to El Chichimeca. It was quiet out, probably because it was hot. Nevertheless, Red saw a few bicycles, two cars, a motorcycle and two pedestrians, one of whom was Carla who stopped to talk to us. He also heard the sizzling of something being fried on a gas stove and came out onto the sidewalk to play-tug on my fingers and gnaw on the carrier before falling asleep by my feet after getting his belly scratched. He was comfortable and at ease out and about, all by himself. I’m proud of him!

Gnawing on the world’s tiniest water dish, on the carrier and about to fall asleep upside down under the bench … after gnawing on it too.

Purple

went on his second solo adventure of the week! We just took a short walk. We had two sidewalk stops to drink water and a third one to briefly sniff a small dog while I held Purple. On the two stops I gave him time to leave the carrier voluntarily, he did so immediately and started exploring, venturing futher than any other puppy has so far (far being about 2 meters.) He found a piece of tissue on his stop that he was intrigued by, saw people, a bike and a motorcycle and met a second dog on the sidewalk. Such a brave boy! Since he didn’t want to go back into the hot crate, I “suggested” he walk with me, and he did – I only walked for about 5 or 6 meters along the sidewalk, but he happily followed along, tail held high! Then I put him back into the carrier. I’m pretty sure his occasional soft carrier complaints were heat related. Which made me think that every puppy should also have a carrier-free outing this week, just being carried by me! Time for more adventures!

Purple and I also heard a loudspeaker announcing a very eclectic selection of products for sale, passing by the truck things were being sold out of: differently flavored homemade aguas (lemonades), clothes, dirt for planting plants and fragrance oils.

Green

I carried Green down the street for no more than 3 minutes, just to check when the vet Carla had told me about was open – I want to use them for their next happy vet visit this week. Green watched the world from my arms and had no complaints.

I’ll want to do this with everyone, but also keep up the carrier outings: when carrying a puppy in my arms, I can’t give them the same agency to either come out of or retreat into the safe space of the carrier, so I wouldn’t want to put them down. With the carrier, I set down the carrier and open it and it’s up to the puppy to decide if and how far they want to come out. I really like the agency and portable safe space this provides.

Puppy play and canine conflicts

I’ve got two play videos for you today! In the first one, we see that tails are a-ma-zing … and that it may not always be the best idea to get near Game’s tennis ball! She drops it just to my right (not visible in the video), and when Purple approaches it, she corrects him by being loud and moving her head fast into his face (without making contact.) You can’t see her, but you can hear her – and you can see Purple’s very appropriate response: this was clear communication; he understands and he backs up; he’s off to do other things.

A note on emotionally intelligent conflict behavior

As I watched this video just now before uploading it, it struck me how much we could (if we were so inclined) learn from canine conflicts. Game is not beating around the bush or hedging her feelings. She says it like it is: “you being near my ball is not okay with me.” I’m anthropomorphizing for the sake of the point I am making: this is the canine equivalent of stating something clearly. Game doesn’t harm or scare Purple. Even though Game is loud, this is NOT the equivalent of the primate behavior of yelling at someone or being physically or emotionally violent. It’s the equivalent of stating a fact: “This is my boundary. Back off.” Purple hears the statement: “Oh, that’s your boundary. Got it!” He respects it rather than pestering Game to change it or questioning her self-knowledge (“But really, I know you better than you know yourself and your boundary is or should actually be over there.”) He moves on with his day and continues having fun without bothering Game. He’ll respect her boundary (except for when he forgets about it and will be reminded of it, which is also totally okay.) No bad blood. No grudges. No endless back and forth that doesn’t lead anywhere. If we were half as decent at communicating (and listening to each other the first time around), our species would be in a lot less trouble. Collectively as well as interpersonally.

… and here’s some more puppy wrestling … and Purple coming for me!

Crate training

Both Red and Purple mastered their 7 minutes without problems today: I chose a sleepy time and they did great! Up next: 8 minutes!

5 weeks, 4 days (May 2)

I had let everyone outside and slept an hour more. When I got up and headed out, I was greeted by everyone hanging on to my socks and pants! EVERYONE! I tugged with them that way and lifted Blue off the ground once again. Loving my little sharks! They are so Mal now! It is beautiful!

Social life

Solo adventures

Green

went on an in-carrier solo adventure this morning. We left around 9, but it was already hot. We stayed out for about 35 minutes, finding an ATM and taking several breaks for Green to drink water and choose if he wanted to come out of the crate. He came out halfway and observed from there each time.

He got to sniff two free-roamers from my arms observe a third one from his half-out carrier position. I also carried him through a tiny street market and then let him observe the goings-on there from his carrier with the door open for a few minutes. We set up outside a school building, so he heard the voices of small kids in the background as well.

The first of Green’s two free-roaming helper dogs and the market we walked through and observed.

Green complained softly on and off in the carrier (likely due to the heat) and calmed down when he could come half-way out or be in my arms. Anytime I closed the carrier exit to walk a little more, he pushed against it with his paws: open doors please!

We also heard an extremely loud screeching sound right next to us – I don’t know what it was, but it certainly hurt my ears! Green in his carrier didn’t seem to mind the sound.

Blue

and I walked to El Chichimeca in the early afternoon. There was less pedestrian traffic than usual, but more traffic-traffic. Below is an excerpt of Blue exploring (she immediately left the carrier and checked out the environment, venturing quite far) and the vehicles passing by. When I take someone on a solo adventure to this place, it’ll usually look similar to this.

We also heard a blender and a kid’s voice from inside El Chichimeca.

Puppy play!

Just because:

The two puppies without collars in this video are Green (the darker one) and Purple (the lighter one.) I just washed their collars and they are drying in the sun.

Blue is the most feisty and playful of them all today (the puppy without a collar who’s being chewed on is Green):

Part 2 of Blue’s feistiness:

Pedicures

Everyone got the nails on their right back paws clipped. By now, they are SO relaxed about this. I’ll bring the big-dog clippers and use those instead of the little human clippers starting next week!

As of this week, I’ve combined handling/husbandry and nail trims. Everyone got brushed, had all paws handled, teeth checked, eyes cleaned and ears cleaned and collars taken off and on again, with everything I do being announced.

I’ve changed the eye- and ear-cleaning strategy and now use a moist paper towel: there’s actually something to clean now that the puppies are spending parts of their day sleeping in the dusty dry dirt under the car (it’s the coolest spot in the yard.) I also added a new element to my “needle” protocol: it’s not just two pencil stings a la IM injection, but also two a la SQ injection by now (it’s two each because I do it left and right.) Nobody is impressed by this procedure at all. We’re about to find out what they think of their first actual needle when I vaccinate them this weekend!

A new toy!

Today, with Game and Chai cooped up, I brought out toy #2 from our fancy toy collection!

This video is the very first time the puppies see this toy – they are engaging with it in this way with no time to explore or think about it first. Go little sharks!

In the end of the clip, I say that we’re into toy play and object play by now. I meant to say we’re into social play and toy/object play by now (toy play is object play.) Excuse the video angle … I needed to hold the camera because I ran over my tripod.

A happyish (less gentle) vet visit

In the late afternoon, I took every puppy on a solo adventure – sans carrier; I carried them in my arms – to the vet who is practically next door, one after the other.

It was interesting to compare this experience with the first happy vet visit we did in the city. This vet was different (of course they were; every person is different – but I digress.) Their exam: the puppies got weighed on the big-dog scale, their mouths got fully opened (rather than just pulling up the lips like the other vet and I have been doing), and the vet manipulated their legs (and not particularly gently at that.) The vet also pulled up their skin (the way you do to check for hydration status.) No stethoscope this time.

The cool thing: the surface of the table was no big deal for anyone except (maybe) Black. This table was metal too, but it had texture unlike typical vet tables – maybe it didn’t feel as weird, or maybe the first happy vet visit table time made a difference.

Purple went first and Black went second. With Black, the vet observed (it wasn’t visible but I’m sure if they said they felt it, they did) that she initially trembled on the table and then stopped and calmed down. None of the other puppies trembled. Given how warm it is, trembling is fear-related, I assume. (Technically, it could also be related to some other state of arousal.) Assuming it is fear, Black’s physiological fear response has set in now as well – at 5 weeks and 4 days old, I’m seeing the first sign of it. Isn’t it wild how long “we” typically wait to start introducing puppies to the world? The average pet or sports puppy sees very little before having fear in their experiential repertoire. (This is NOT true for the average free-roaming puppy, who is the average dog. Pets and sports dogs only make up a small fraction of the world’s dog population.)

I let the vet do their spiel. After all, nothing cruel was being done to the puppies and I don’t know who their vets will be later in life. Maybe they’ll resemble this one! In the end of the visit, every puppy was mostly relaxed, even Black who didn’t start out that way.

A note on human behavior and first impressions

What stood out to me was how differently the vet treated each puppy based on their first impression of them. They immediately pidgeonholed Black as the most timid. However, rather than being extra gentle, they seemed more foreceful to me when handling her than they had been when handling the first puppy, Purple. This was confirmed with the puppies following Black: every one of them got less prodding and leg-pulling and joint-moving than her. I’d be surprised if the vet was conscious of treating them differently. They handled the most playful puppy (Red) the least and the most gently, and the second most playful one, Green, almost as little as Red. They very clearly “liked” Red best and Green second best because they were mouthy and exploratory and the vet commented on it, sounding amused. Blue resisted a little when she didn’t like something, but didn’t try to play or explore, and Purple was simply calm and relaxed, letting things happen. The vet told me that Red had “the most character,” which (the vet told me) was “a good thing in this breed.” Being a language person, I can’t help but notice that character (not a scientific term as far as I know) was seen as something dogs have a certain amount of. The vet didn’t use the term to describe a trait every dog has and that looks different depending on the individual, but as a trait some individuals have, to pick a unit at random, 5 ounces of and other individuals have 10 or 15 ounces of. Apparently, in the Malinois breed, the more ounces of character you have, the better. I wonder: if I asked the vet (which I didn’t do because I would probably have confused the poor person with my semantic eccentricities), would they tell me that there was a maximum amount of character an indivudal dog could have (say 15 ounces) or whether it was always relative to the litter in question (one would rank the puppies within the litter from most to least amount of character and consider the one with the most character the best if the dogs in front of one were Malinois. It might be the other way around if they were Cavalier King Charles Spaniels or Golden Retrievers.) In the latter case, if Red was part of a different litter where the other puppies had MORE rather than LESS ounces of character, Red wouldn’t be the best. This discussion isn’t meant to go anywhere; it’s just … semantics. But interesting ones that point to human biases! We all have biases, of course – it’s just a lot easier to see them in others (such as our vets) than in ourselves.

Being carried to the vet and back, everyone saw a person or two in the street. Purple also saw a dog in the waiting room. Black got pet in my arms by a stranger with two dogs when I carried her back home, and briefly got to sniff one of the dogs while I held her. I won’t count them as a new person – too little contact – but I’ll count their dog!

This vet liked hearing themselves talk, so I listened. They charged me quite a bit, so I made the most of our time there and stayed in the environment with every puppy until they had finished talking and sent me out.

A note on human behavior and actions considerd ethical/the subjective value placed on lives

I now know that they “rescued” a Belgian/GSD mix who was going to be put down because she killed farm animals. They kept the dog (even though they also have a farm.) Sadly, the dog has to always be chained up or they would keep killing. They have, in fact, been let loose a few times over the past few years, and several farm animals died in the wake of it.

It was interesting on several levels to hear this dog’s story. The previous human of this dog had either considered euthanasia kinder than a locked-up or chained-up life, or they were simply pragmatic and didn’t want their dog to kill their other animals. Maybe they considered all lives equally valid, and didn’t think it okay for this dog to kill others. Who knows.

The vet, on the other hand, considered living on a chain the better choice for the dog than death. At the same time, the fact that this dog stayed alive has apparently led to the death of several more farm animals over the years. I didn’t ask them to clarify their moral point of view and I don’t have arguments for or against their decision regarding that dog – but it sure is fascinating. Once more, I’m finding the dog world (our cross-species intersection with canines) to be like a mirror image of the world at large and its complexity of points of view and hard convictions.

Crate training

Purple

complained around level 2 on and off throughout his 8 minutes. I put him in the carrier when he was sleepy – but everyone started waking up right after and he clearly wanted to be part of the action. He’ll be doing 8 minutes again next time.

Red

slept through his 8 minutes and will be taking a stab at 9 next time!

Exploring the house

At night, it looked like it was about to start raining. So rather than hanging out outside like we usually would, I let everyone in and allowed them to explore all of the (studio) house. I’ve kept them outside during the day and in their puppy area at night because this is very much not my house and I don’t want them to pee everywhere and eat the furniture – but a puppy needs to entertain oneself when it’s raining! They had fun dragging everything they found (plastic bag, towel etc.) all over the place, tasting every object and exploring the nooks and crannies! There only was a single peeing accident inside. (And it didn’t rain more than a few drops after all.)

5 weeks, 5 days (May 3)

I let everyone outside when they first wake up in the morning and ask me to. Currently, that’s around 6AM. Then I sleep a little longer before joining them outside. This is what it looks like right now! (So far, Blue is the only one I can lift up – for the second day in a row!)

Here’s another delightful snippet of tugging with Blue. Yep, of course I’m teaching them to tug on clothes. As I said, these puppies will hopefully be socially and environmentally confident – gotta make sure their future homes have something to grapple with! Isn’t that why humans get puppies?

At 7:30, we got yet another new level of bomba (extremely loud firecrackers) loudness from the other side of the wall around the yard. Game asked to come in the house – this level was unfun to spend without me – but the puppies kept playing through it! I love that they are getting this experience. Except for the one puppy that is going to be very much a city puppy and the one who might go abroad, everyone is bound to hear these kinds of noises on a regular basis.

They have Game’s and Drago’s genes, but we believe (as far as I know) that almost everything behavioral is a gene/environment interaction. As a puppy, Game had no exposure to this noise level – she only encountered it as an adult, and at that point, she was ready to sensitize. All five of the puppies played through it today. Here’s to hoping this is going to immunize them from developing big feelings about explosions! (Just to give you an idea – gun shots are nothing compared to the loudness level of these bombas. Game wouldn’t flinch on what’s part of many bitey working dog apt-for-breeding tests, which is not responding to a gun shot. This kind of noise is nothing like a gun shot. It is only the second time I’ve heard bombas like these in Mexico, and I’ve been here for over two years. In Guatemala, we heard them or even louder ones almost daily.)

The second round of bombas next door happened around 10AM. This time, it went on for a while, and both Game and Chai (who I’ve never seen show concern about firecrackers) responded. Chai croached and tucked her tail and Game stress-panted. Red observed the adults, and since I don’t want social learning (puppies watching the reaction of an adult dog to determine whether a stimulus is something to be concerned with), I put Game and Chai in the house and played with the puppies. Red fell back asleep and Purple hadn’t woken up in the first place. Green, Blue and Black all played with me. Green and Blue got convinced right away; Black needed a bit longer to start playing despite the sounds, but then went on to play with her siblings rather than me.

The third round of firecrackers happened about half an hour later. These were a little more in the distance, but Black looked concerned (at a noise level she hadn’t previously been concerned.) I got her to socially play with me a bit and come close for snuggles that relaxed her. She also watched Green play wildly with my other hand. Green was being an excellent role model, and about half a minute after this round of firecrackers stopped, Black was ready to play with him. The other three puppies slept through the noise.

The rest of today’s firecrackers was the usual noise level and further away, so everyone stayed chill during those.

While I’ve mentioned in an earlier post that puppy temperament tests aren’t proven to be reliable to judge adult personality, I will take Black’s higher noise sensitivity into account. Maybe it will change – but maybe it won’t. Noise sensitivity is one of these things that (anecdotally) get worse rather than better the older a dog gets. I have nothing else to go on and it will be up to me to place the two girls myself, even though I’d rather have their future people pick: I’ll drive one to Miguel, who can’t pick up their puppy because they don’t have a car – and this will be before Irving is back from a work trip. Neither one has decided on a puppy and they both want one of Game’s – no matter who. If I keep seeing the difference in noise sensitivity, I’ll place my decision on this (we need to base our decisions on something and in this case, it is at least not entirely arbitrary): Black will go to the quieter home (in Mexico City) and Blue to the louder one (Miguel’s town is one of the loudest places I’ve been to in Mexico.)

Blue is currently my favorite because she’s SO feisty and fight-y. I love how I can lift her up, all 4 paws off the ground, attached to a sock! I can’t help it – I love the biteyness of Mals. It’s one of their most fun qualities. It’s fun and informative to stop and reflect on my favorites and how they change all the time.

Solo adventures

Black

and I walked to El Chichimeca. Black’s experience was pretty much the same as Blue’s video yesterday – except that it seemed even hotter. Black came out of the carrier right away, had a drink of water, explored around the carrier and in the entrance to El Chichimeca for a bit, had another drink and fell asleep in a shady spot under the bench. We also learned that there is a reason for today’s cohetes: it’s El Día de la Santa Cruz. Santa Cruz is the saint in whose honor bricklayers put crosses on top of buildings they are working on.

Cohetes at night

It rained a little and the puppies got to turn the little house upside down again (after having fallen asleep under a bench outside and getting a little wet; smelling rain!)

When the rain stopped, the firecrackers next door started up again big time. This last round was the BEST. I left the big dogs inside and the puppies and I ran through the yard social-playing – I’d call pup-pup-pup, run away, they’d all chase me and get wiggly and excited when they caught up to me, and I’d play and pet them. (Human touch is currently highly reinforcing to them.) We played for a few minutes, until a little after the firecrackers stopped. Everyone was ALL IN the entire time, tails up and wagging, joyfully chasing me around the yard – including Black. I LOVE the change I’ve seen in her in this single day! It will be interesting to see what happens if/when there’s another saint being celebrated while we’re in town.

5 weeks, 6 days (April 4)

We drove to the city bright and early. Saturday morning traffic was light AND my new shade structure worked very well. No complaints from the gang in the trunk! We dropped Game and Chai off at the apartment and then the puppies and I met Alan and Kiba at Kiba’s Park. Apart from hanging out with them, the puppies met a few other dogs and people each and had a snack eating kibble from my hands at the park. Nobody hesitated to eat or drink out and about.

I saw Blue’s first big (comparatively) fear response: she yelled when she saw the first up-close dog today, before Alan and Kiba got there. She warmed up within about 20 seconds and proceeded to be confident around every other dog she met up close or saw from a distance.

Left: Alan’s arm, Kiba, Blue and Green! Right: we met Jambi and one of their people again – everyone got sniffed and held!

After a while, we switched spots and hung out outside the playground gate. Two kids, 8 and 9, came over and had lovely puppy interactions for about 15 minutes. They held and petted everyone and were very gentle with them.

We also met a Pug at Kiba’s park … and fell asleep in the bushes after having fun with the kids!

The puppies also saw to younger kids running. The first one caused them to watch with what looked like alert. The second one was taken in stride.

We got home and took a break, and then had the first of our two weekend visitors at the apartment. The puppies were still tired, so everyone slept in my friend’s arms. By the tame Rachel left and Pabla came by, the puppies were just waking up. Everyone played a little with Pabla, licked their beard and pulled on their shoe laces. It was delightful to see them interact so confidently!

I had asked Pabla to bring an umbrella because I can’t find mine. We startle-recovered two puppies. Everyone else had fallen asleep again and I didn’t want to wake them. Good thing I just remember where my umbrella is; I’ll give the others their turn tomorrow!

Unfortunately, Purple’s video is the only half-way decent one I took – in the others, you can pretty much only see the umbrella and not the puppy’s response. Here, you see the puppy’s response and can hear the umbrella opening … but you don’t see it. Oh well! In any case, Purple’s fast recovery is awesome!

I also fit in a solo trip for Purple. He went into an electronics store with me in his carrier, and then I carried him through a pet chain store without a carrier. The cashier briefly held him. Plus he got to experience the hustle and bustle of a busy parking lot.

Pet store adventure selfie with Purple … and Pabla is being eaten by Green!

What is becoming really clear to me is that temperature can be both reinforcing and punishing to puppies this age. Obviously, it can be both these things for any dog (and other animals, including us humans) at any age, but puppies are VERY responsive to it – definitely more so than adult dogs. Anytime the puppies are hot, they will immediately complain. I can observe this well when someone, like Purple today, is in the foot space of the car seat. He complained anytime it was hot and immediately stopped when I set the AC to the footspace. When I changed it to blow at my chest, he’d start complaining again almost immediately. It’s fascinating and I get the impression that at this age, temperature would be a stronger reinforcer (or punisher) than food or social interaction. From my subjective perspective based on my subjective observations, at this age temperature is the strongest reinforcer (or punisher) for the puppies, followed by social interactions, followed by food. I bet it would be possible to teach young puppies quite a bit with an experimental chamber containing floors of different temperatures!

After dinner, I took the puppies to Fresa Parque to check off our evening/night park time and people/dogs watching at weird light conditions. They looked alert at first, but again, were fully comfortable and started exploring after about 20 seconds. Everyone met dogs. Black got held by a stranger, and we were approached by a teen in inline skates wearing ALL the protective gear. Several people stopped to talk with me without interacting with the puppies; some with and some without dogs – another great experience for the puppies. The park was VERY busy tonight; it was perfect!

Night time puppies at the park! Much busier than last week! Black is panting because we just got out of the car, and it’s been HOT! (No worries; water was about to be served.) It was darker than my image makes it look.

We then switched spots and went into the very busy playground to hang out and observe kids running and playing, riding bikes, screaming and swinging in swing sets. The puppies are all able to visually track now and follow them by turning their heads! We observed and listened to yelling, screaming and laughing until everyone had fallen asleep. Purple stayed awake the longest and played with the tiny water dish (we’re outgrowing it) and then lay on top of a sibling and slowly dozed off as he was watching the world go by.

Tonight’s last station was an ice cream store they all joined me for in their carrier and backpack. Two kids came in right after us, and since I had opened the backpack (only 3 puppies fit in the carrier now, so 2 go in the backpack – and its ventilation isn’t great), the kids saw them and asked to pet them. Everyone got pet with the two backpack puppies – Green and Black – getting the most attention. They were awake while the others slept through the pets. I won’t count these two kids because they didn’t hold them, but it was a great experience, at the very least for the pups who were awake. They must have been a bit younger than the kids in the morning – maybe 6 or 7?

Now we’re back home and everyone is sleeping. It’s been a long day! I can’t believe how much I fit into it: seeing three friends, visiting two parks, running an errand and the drive back to the city! Today is my day off this week, which makes things feel lighter. We’ll see how long my energy and social batteries last. Raising these puppies isn’t only a great experience in terms of learning about very young canines – it also is a laboratory of getting to know myself.

6 weeks

As of this morning, we are chewing and pulling on and playing with everything we can find. My solution is to have out as many chewable objects as possible: half of the paper tubes, empty paper bags and cardboard boxes I collected over the last few months, our apartment toy … not worrying about anything that is indestructable or can’t be chewed up and putting electronics out of reach! They are SO fun to watch, and my favorite part was when Blue and Red climbed over the new and enhanced (in height) barrier and Blue was the first to be all over me, as excited as one puppy could possibly be to greet me in the morning!

For the first time this morning, Chai (poor rough-coated dog!) got the same greeting as me with puppies all over her, trying to hold on to her feathers. Being a pacifist, she had to flee to the couch for safety.

Becoming social animals

We started the day with a trip to Parque de las Arboledas. Everyone met LOTS of people and dogs! The puppies took turns sleeping and exploring/being held/meeting dogs/playing with each other and also ate kibble from my hands.

We met ALL the people and dogs in the morning! The puppy who fell asleep after opening this person’s shoelaces is Black.

A video – way too long! – of everything summarized by the pictures above, for myself as a memory, future rebelde homes and anyone else who’s got too much time on their hands and loves watching puppies:

BLOM

In the late afternoon, we went to hang out with our friends at BLOM1. I’m only counting one person per puppy and one dog for Black since Viri directly introduced her to their Yorkie Martina, but I didn’t keep track. We had Diego, Viri and Miguel – Diego is on the wait list for a puppy, but will probably miss out, but they sure aren’t missing out on the fun – as well as two random customers and Viri and Diego’s dogs, Yorkie Martina and Pit Maco to hang out with! I was only going to go for an hour, but it turned into two and a half. It was great! The puppies explored, we humans had fun with them and time flew by. Miguel broke out delicious pan de nata they had gotten at a feria and we all shared slices. The puppies ate kibble again and watched dogs and people walk past, some of whom stopped to talk to us. A little Chi barked angrily, and one of the puppies – I believe it was Red, but I’m not 100% sure anymore – went to go hide briefly, but was back out 20 seconds later, watching curiously as the still-barking Chihuahua was getting smaller in the distance.

Bottom left: venturing about 8 meters from where we were on the sidewalk! Bottom right: one of the two strangers who stopped to get to know the puppies!

Again, a video of what’s summarized in pictures above for those who (like me and everyone in this video!) can’t get enough of the little ones! This time, we’ve got Purple in a leading role. The thing inside the tote bag that he tries to get to is a wrapped stack of tortillas. Purple will currently eat everything he finds.

This afternoon, Purple was the most travieso of all and gnawed on everything in his way. Viri got him to play with them with a rug.

Of the two boys who haven’t been picked yet, I’d have sent Red to a sports home yesterday. Today, I’d send Purple. This just goes to show that REALLY, we don’t know who puppies will grow up to be. Unless they are outliers and very different from everyone else, we just don’t know. They change SO much.

There is only a single trait that has been somewhat consistent in a single puppy so far: Black has appeared more “think before you do” and “watch first” than the others, who are more likely to jump right into anything new. Black has “jump right in” days as well and the others have “think before you do days.” Black has just had more tentative days than the others.

“Breeders” (I don’t like this term, hence the quotes) who play matchmaker like to be in control (like most of us humans do), and they know that it is currently (in the US and probably Canada) considered best practice for breeders to match puppies with homes – and everyone wants to signal that they are “an ethical breeder.”

I’m European where you typically get to pick yourself (unless you signed up for a puppy later, in which case you take whoever is still available.) I prefer the European model that doesn’t attach ethics to puppy selection. I will pick the two girls because I’ll be the one driving one of them to Miguel (a different Miguel than the BLOM one) before either Irving or Miguel have a chance to pick – not because I want to.

Alan got to pick for his Dad. As for the two remaining boys, Eduardo (Drago’s human) is happy to go with the last one, whoever he turns out to be. I would let the second home for a boy – Joan; we can reveal a first name now! – pick, but I believe they do want my input. I will share it WITH THE DISCLAIMER IN CAPS that it means very little (because it CAN not be meaningful – I truly believe it cannot. Unlike some “breeders,” I have no God complex in this regard.) It will mostly depend on the day I’m being asked. We could, of course, Volhardt Red and Purple (or everyone) just for fun if Joan would like to. They’ll be a new dog person we could use as the evaluator before they meet them in a more casual way!

The senses

Vaccines – round one!

Red screamed. Everyone else barely woke up (I picked a sleepy time of day). Black looked at me briefly and then put her head back down. I suspect I didn’t sting Red in quite the right way, causing him pain. OR he’s more sensitive to it, or just got really startled. I may give things with an actual – empty or saline-solution filled – syringe (instead of a pencil) another try in a few days to find out which it is in his case.

In case the above is confusing: I typically vaccinate my own dogs in places where this is possible; i.e. where you can buy vaccines over the counter. That’s because I want vet experiences to be as relaxing as possible for the puppies and only emergency solutions for adult dogs. (This behavior on my part is caused by my own mistrust and anxiety around physicians and vets.) For these puppies, I hope to have created positive vet experiences and stung them with needles them in a less stressful context, at home. I know Miguel does the same thing with their dogs, so at least one puppy will get vaccinated by his human going forwards as well.

Exploring a bit of the corridor

Purple was the first one out the apartment door when we came back from Game’s afternoon outing, but everyone followed quickly. Purple and Green ran about 6 meters away along the corridor to explore, and Black, Blue and Red climbed 3 stairs each when I led Game up ahead of them. And then, they tumbled down the last one on their way back down! Brave puppies!

Green, Black and Purple were all fascinated by the mirror today (I had it show up in different places over the course of the day again.)

The Uncanny room, take 2

I transformed the former blanket fort into another uncanny room while the puppies were sleeping:

The order the puppies approached the uncanny room says something about the order they woke up in, not about who’s the most curious. After scaring himself, Purple was back to playing with the others 20 seconds later – outside The Uncanny Room though. I’ll set up Fred for him again when we get another chance so he can have a positive interaction.

I also found my umbrella and startled the remaining 3 puppies with it. They all had great startle-and-immediate-recovery responses!

Names

As I’m reading through this post and editing it before I hit publish – it’s Monday, May 6 – I’m thinking about names. I didn’t know if I would name the rebeldes before sending them off to their new homes. If I did, it was only going to be once their personalities – which may still change – started showing.

This weekend, Mexican friends suggested Principe for Purple. And somehow, I now feel like naming them all! That’s even if they’ll only have their names for 2 weeks before going to their new homes and probably getting new names along with it. For me, Purple will be Oso (bear). Green will be Bravo (corageous; aggressive in Spanish; great, super in German). Red will be Fierro (Mexican slang for alright; gun). Blue will be Chispa (spark) and as for Black … I don’t know yet!


  1. Blom, by the way, is Afrikaans for “flower.” ↩︎

Rebelde litter: Week 1 (March 24-31, 2024)

I filled in TWO more days on my color tracker before the puppies were born. This means that gestation likely happened several days after the mating.

The last tracker! The puppies were born in the night from Sunday to Monday (before midnight.)

Raising a litter of puppies has been A Big Dream that I’ve dreamed for about 3 decades. When other kids knew they wanted to have children or get married one day, I knew I wanted to raise a litter of puppies. Is there anything better than making your biggest dream come true? It feels like the biggest thing I have done for myself.

The other night, I thought about the nature of joy: it’s rarely something that happens to us. The most meaningful joy is the joy we curate for ourselves: both the small joys we turn into habits (for me, nature hikes every weekend; freshly squeezed orange juice from the corner stand in the morning), and the big joys that stay with us (living with dogs; living in Latin America), and the other Big Joys that are probably going to be one-time events: raising a litter of puppies. I wonder if my friends who have had the get married/have kids goal for years/decades and then did it feel the way I feel. These milestone events are the only ones I imagine might come close to what the puppies mean to me because there is nothing else I have dreamed of for so long.

Joy is something to lean into and soak up. I’m going to do so consciously every day for the next 8 weeks. I feel so lucky to be able to do this, and to have people to share it with. Joy is one of these things that definitely gets stronger when shared. As I type this, I sit in Game’s blanket fort, watching her and the puppies, all sound asleep, behind the screen of my laptop and my naked feet. When I look at them, I can’t help but smile. The joy is here with me even when I am the only human in the room. But it’s equally or even more joyful to talk about the beauty of it all with my friends near and far, students and colleagues who’ve been following along with my wild and precious Game adventures.

There is a German saying: “Vorfreude ist die schönste Freude” – “The biggest joy is in the anticipation of joy.” It’s true – we know that the largest dopamine release happens when we anticipate a reinforcer, not when we access the reinforcer. Maybe the same is true about anticipating an event. It would be hard to top the size of my joy in the days leading up to the puppies’ birthday. I knew once they were here, they would be a lot of work as well as a lot of fun. But the anticipation was pure, undiluted joy. Joy like a an ice cold strawberry smoothie with a paper umbrella on the beach of Little Corn Island (if strawberry smoothies were bottomless and stayed cold for eight weeks.)

Day 0 (March 24, 2024)

Wheee! It has happened! I am … tired. And relieved! Game took her time and I started to get worried when her water broke and the contractions didn’t start. I even went Oxytocin hunting all over the city just in case I had to induce labor.

The calm before the storm.

I had made a plan to not worry before Monday, but when the contractions took their time in starting, the only one I didn’t worry about was Game. I thought the fetuses would probably die. I told Charli who was great about saying the right things. Thank you, friend.

Anyways, turns out that Games just take their time! The contractions came – they just didn’t start right away. Once they started, it all went pretty fast. This is the first time I’ve watched a dog give birth. It didn’t look as crazy as human births AT ALL and it seemed WAY less painful (if the human births I’ve seen on TV are any indication.)

Newly hatched! The first one.

This is how newborn puppies sound when they complain:

I’m impressed how fast these puppies, who were just born and haven’t had a chance to eat yet, are moving! They are determined. They are little warriers. I hadn’t realized the life of altricial species starts out with this much adversity! (And maybe it doesn’t with a more experienced mother.) In any case – minutes after being born, puppies are ready to fight their way to their food and call for help!

The first three have made their way to the milk bar!

I also had no idea how much noise unsatisfied puppies can make! The first three raised their little voices big time because Game hadn’t opened the milk bar yet. They were complaining loudly and high-pitched – they did remind me of squeaky toys. Game potentially as well: she had that same facial expression she does when thinking of de-squeaking a toy. I had to hold her back a bit and really hoped she wouldn’t de-squeak them in my sleep. Luckily, once everyone had been born, Game was ready to open the milk bar, and that stopped everyone’s complaints. She no longer looks like she is thinking about biting into them! She’s been taking her job very seriously and only left their side when I called her to go outside, and then she’ll pull back towards the apartment as soon as she is done.

They were born before midnight on March 24, but I’ll start counting weeks/activities from the 25th onwards. That first night, all we did was get born. There’s five of them: 3 boys and 2 girls. One more than expected!

Smell of the night: DEET spray on me (because mosquitos). This is probably not the most delicious smell to welcome you into the world, but what can you do!

Day 1 (March 25, 2024)

Activities: sleeping and eating, being observed by me (they are so soothing! Who needs aquariums!) and being transferred into a little box with a towel when Game has to go out, and then back into the blanket fort.

Special events

Game clearly has strong feelings about protecting them: at noon, someone walked up the stairs ahead of us (towards my apartment door, which they have to pass to get to theirs) and Game tried to grab their pants! Turns out she’s a mama bear dog!

Touch

I handled everyone once, touching all four paws, the tail and the ears.

The senses

I’m trying to imagine what their sensual experience is like: they can sense temperature and smell, but they can’t hear or see. Their first day smelled of coffee, chocolate, nail polish (the puppy collars I got are a bit large, so I painted their back nails. Girl “blue” sneezed!), puppy goat milk formula.

Specialty foods

I got formula and a bottle and tried to bottle feed everyone when I handled them. The first human-directed thing I’d like them to learn is to also drink from a bottle. That way, I can have visitors feed them and create positive associations between different people and food before the puppies are socially responsive/interested. Bottle feeding is harder than I expected though; I only got one of them to try and drink a little. I’ll have to do some research before trying again. I didn’t insist today.

Who are the puppies?

We have a bright pink (nailpolish) boy, a bright green boy and an unmarked boy as well as a blue girl and an unmarked girl. Everyone has a white chest mark. Green boy’s mark is the smallest.

Pics and videos

I could look at them all day!

Watching them nurse is SO soothing (which is why this video ended up being so long and I didn’t even notice.)

Last thought of the day

I just re-watched a video of the puppies crawling in search of the milk bar from yesterday and the one from today. WOW. I believe they are already bigger – and they are most definitely faster and more coordinated! It hasn’t even been 24 hours!

Day 2 (March 26, 2024)

Activities

The plan was to not have visitors the first two days. However, it’s my friend Charli’s last day in town, so the pups got to meet their first human (other than me) one day sooner than planned – and their first two dogs, Hilo and Nemo!

Today’s visitor protocol

  1. Move Game to car crate.
  2. Charli sees me handle every puppy and copies it after watching them.
  3. Charli brings Hilo.
  4. I hold each puppy while Hilo, on leash, sniffs/licks them for a few seconds.
  5. Hilo goes back in the car and Nemo comes up.
  6. I hold each puppy while Nemo, on leash, sniffs/licks them for a few seconds.
  7. We put Nemo back in the car and Charli and I come back up together with Game, giving Game a chance to recognize Charli and say hi on neutral territory.

At least for the first week, I won’t have Game around when the puppies have visitors. We followed my plan today. The puppies were sleepy when Charli got here. They took being handled and sniffed ´in sleepy stride. I don’t know how much of a difference ultra-early tiny amounts of socialization make, but I’ll keep doing them for sure! We may take tomorrow off because we didn’t take day 2 off, but I plan on continuing to socialize on Thursday.

My goal is one new person and one new dog every day, starting on day 3, with repeats being permitted over the weeks. This is obviously not going to work out because that is A LOT of people and dogs – but I aim for it. As of today, we are ahead of schedule: the puppies “met” two new dogs and one new human!

Game was a little aroused when coming back in and smelling Charli, Nemo and Hilo on the puppies, but quickly settled down again. I’m happy to say that it doesn’t seem to have been a particularly stressful experience for her. Part of this may be that Charli, Nemo and Hilo are all friends of hers who she is happy to see. Some snapshots:

Charli is the first person other than me to ever hold them!

Every puppy also got about 5 seconds of being sniffed by and smelling first Hilo and then Nemo. I’m not going for duration here – I’m going for a few seconds of quality time with a wide range of people and dogs.

Handling/touch

They got stroked and ears, paws and tail got handled by Charli and me.

The senses

The smells of Charli, Hilo, Nemo and Game’s kibble were all new.

Pics and videos

More cuteness!

… and a walk through Game’s blanket fort to show you our set-up! Game says, “Why are you holding a camera in my face? We’re not even training!”

Last thought of the day

Today was Game’s last day on Panacur (fenbendazole): I’ve been giving it at a low dose (25mg/kg) from day 40 past mating until day 2 – today – post whelping. I used the opportunity to deworm Chai today as well.

It really did the trick: the puppies look healthy and don’t have the potbelly appearance puppies get when they have worms. I just realized that this is the first time in years that I’ve seen puppies without the worm potbelly: all the freeroaming puppies I’ve been around had worms. [Which is not that big a deal for the dogs; a healthy organism can carry a decent wormload. But I very much don’t want any in my house, with dogs sleeping in my bed and licking my face! Intestinal parasites are one of very few things I find disgusting.]

Day 3 (March 27, 2024)

Activities

Today, we had the quiet day I had planned for yesterday (first two days.) Chai got to go to the park and play with Kiba, and Game and the pups got to sleep, snuggle and eat all day.

I tried to offer a bottle again, but all of them said NO, just like yesterday. Maybe the hole I made is too small, or maybe formula just doesn’t taste good if you get more than enough milk from your Game. I tried it myself today and it really doesn’t taste particularly interesting. It’s very bland; if I had to describe the flavor, I would call it “artificial” – in the way that you say, “artificial cherry flavor” – only that the formula tastes only artificial, no flavor. It’s not “bad” (better than artificial cherry flavor for sure), but I’d probably only drink it if I was very hungry and there was nothing else.

Handling/touch

No introductions, nothing exciting – but here’s the handling I practice every day with every pup! Once they are a little older, I’ll include mouth/teeth as well. I ask puppy visitors to do the same handling exercises with every puppy to normalize what is normal in an adult dog’s life: getting their paws touched for nail trims, their ears checked … Less than 2 minutes per puppy – and maybe it’ll make a little difference in their future handling sensitivity.

Smell(s) of the day

Detergent, chocolate.

Pics and videos

Day 4 (March 28, 2024)

Activities

The little ones went to the hair salon next door today. It was a 5-10 minute trip total, counting from the moment I picked up the puppies and the moment I set them back down again with Game. The hair salon is only a few doors down from my house. On the walk, the puppies probably felt the shifting temperatures (the cool hallway of my building, the heat in the street, the in-between temperature in the hair salon.) They must have smelled all the hair salon smells, too.

Of the three hair salon folks, every puppy got held and petted gently by one of them. I didn’t give them instructions of how to handle them except from being gentle – for now, the handling protocol is for people coming over.

Every puppy also got to sniff and got sniffed by Camila and Dana, the two hair salon pugs. Camila and Dana were not particularly impressed. Here’s a snapshot:

“What’s he doing on my couch?”

Game did really well staying home and wasn’t at all upset when I handed the puppies back to her. Her response was much calmer than when Charli, Nemo and Hilo came over on day #2.

Speaking of activities – you may remember that I mentioned Puppy Culture explains “activated sleep” (I don’t know if this is a scientific term or one Jane Killion made up) being due to the puppies’ need to work their muscles so they gain strength. After observing the puppies for a few days, I actually doubt that this is why they move in their sleep – they probably (I guess, and I have no sources to verify this) just move a little when they dream, like we humans do. The reason I don’t think this is their workout routine is that I’ve seen how much they push and pull themselves: they go to find the milk bar, they move towards Game and each other when they are cold and away from each other when they are warm, pulling themselves over the ground. They fight for the best spots at the milk bar. They try and move over Game’s paws or over each other when they are in each others’ way. This must be a much more intense workout than moving paws in the air (no resistance) in their sleep – and they do it all day long when they aren’t sleeping!

I also can’t believe how big they are getting. How can they already be visibly bigger than on their first day?! It’s wild!

Handling/touch

Every puppy got held and petted by one new person at the hair salon next door. While I didn’t ask them to do my handling protocol, they got to hold on to the puppies for a little longer.

Like every evening, I handled everyone’s tail, paws and ears and stroked them. Green boy has BIG paws and seemed annoyed about the fact that he didn’t find a milk bar in my t-shirt. Overall, during the very first handling session, the puppies seemed a little squiggly and uncomfortable. Yesterday, they relaxed into my hands. Today, they started showing exploratory behavior of my hands and t-shirt.

In yesterday’s handling video, you’ll see a startle response when I touch one of the ears. While puppies don’t have a fear response yet, they can startle! They also do have opinions: for example, when Game steps on one of them, they will squeal in protest.

Smell(s) of the day

Bepanthen, out-in-the-street smells, hair salon smells, 3 new people (one new person per puppy), two new dogs: Camila and Dana, the two 8 and 12 year old hair salon pugs.

Pics and videos

The cuteness! And perfect little puppy paws!

The paw in the picture on the right looks as if I had already clipped nails, but I have not – I don’t know why; it just looks that way in this picture. However, this got me thinking that maybe it’s a good time to start. If they have inherited Game’s incredibly fast growing nails, why not go through all four paws once a week, doing one paw a day, and keeping this up until I place them! I might start on Sunday, when we won’t meet any outside folks or have other adventures.

Last thought of the day

We may be able to meet our goal of 5 different dogs and 5 different people per puppy even though it is Semana Santa! I’m impressed! So far, we have 4 dogs (Hilo, Nemo, Dana, Camila) and 2 people per puppy (Charli and one hair salon person each.) If things go as planned, tomorrow, Alan and Kiba will be visiting, giving us another new dog and new human, and on Saturday, Pabla will come over. In terms of dogs, we’ll have checked all 5 boxes. In terms of humans, I’d like to find one more person who can visit or who we can visit nearby on Sunday. If Alan and Kiba can’t make it tomorrow, I’ll use Chai as dog #5 instead. Believe it or not, but she hasn’t yet met the puppies – I kept her as a backup.

We probably won’t meet our socialization goals every week, and as the puppies develop, I may change and adapt their socialization goals. But we’re off to a strong start!

Day 5 (March 29, 2024)

Handling/touch

+ Every puppy got held and petted by Diego at Blom Café (a few doors down in the other direction) and petted by one of their customers while I held them. It’s fascinating how the puppies are now becoming more aware and active. For example, two of them turned their heads away from the customer and towards me – the familiar smell!

One of them stretched their head out of the crate to sniff in all the directions in the coffee place.

+ I handled everyone with our daily protocol: stroking, paws, tail, ears, stroking.

The senses

Street smells, coffee shop smells, rawhide smell. Walking through the street for about 2 minutes each way to the café around the corner. Yesterday, I covered their little crate when carrying them. Today, I opened it so they could feel the sun and the shade and the wind on the 4 minutes we were walking outside.

Pics and videos

Diego was one of my socialization helpers today. They invited us to come back tomorrow, and as much and as often as we’d like in the future so we can rope customers into helping too!

I haven’t heard from Alan and Kiba yet – their mom isn’t doing well and it’s hard to get away. I suspect I may end up using Chai as this week’s dog #5. That’s okay – with Pabla coming over tomorrow, I’ll meet my people goal. Hopefully, Alan’s mom will be better next week and they’ll get to hang out with the puppies and bring Kiba along!

Last thought of the day: health

I know it is common to worry about the health of puppies. Hygiene usually gets prioritized: wash your hands. Make sure your visitors wash theirs and take their shoes off. Don’t take the puppies outside before X. Only have them around dogs you know for sure are healthy, vaccinated and don’t have parasites.

While I take my shoes off (I’m Austrian and that’s what we do), I’m not worried about the rest. I feel so strongly about the importance of socialization and learning that the world you (the puppy) are going to live in is normal that I could not make the choice to shield them from it because it may contain pathogens. I believe in this so strongly that even if someone got sick or even died, I would not treat the others differently. It’s not that I’m naive – I’ve just seen SO much behavioral fallout, especially in pointy-eared breeds, due to a lack of socialization that the risk of undersocializing appears disproportionally bigger to me than any health risks. I want the puppies to grow into adults who are able to live full lives. To go places. To do sports. To be out and about, off leash, without being a danger to human or canine strangers or visitors to your house. I want to set them up to be all of this with ease rather than requiring years of work and thousands of dollars spent on behavior consultations or Prozac. I want them to have lives that are rich and interesting, not lives that have to mostly be confined by leashes, long lines, muzzles and crates.

It is fascinating to me to watch myself project on these dogs: I am such a freedom seeker that it actually seems to me (without having to think about it twice) that a dog only has a truly good life if they have all these freedoms in it: freedom to hang out with you and your friends; freedom to hike off leash; freedom to play dog sports; freedom to socialize. Clearly, this is about me, not about them. I don’t know what life a dog would consider worthwhile because they can’t tell me. I only know what kind of life I myself appreciate, and I want to set my puppies up for a canine version of my own ideal life.

Day 6 (March 30, 2024)

Unfortunately, the low barrier fell over and landed on green boy’s head after my friends left. Pobrecito! Luckily, he seems okay.

Handling/touch

The puppies were held and snuggled by Pabla and Rosalba who visited at night. This was the longest they have been out of the blanket fort so far – every puppy was out for about 15 minutes, half of which they spent in Rosalba’s arms and half of which in Pabla’s arms.

Pink boy and Rosalba, hammock mode.

I didn’t ask them to do the handling protocol because two visitors on a day puts us over the 5 new people of the week as well as over the one new person per day goal. I’d rather they feel comfortable and relaxed around new folks than they get pestered too much with my protocol.

Last thought of the day: SO much socializing!

Is it possible that I’m overdoing the socializing? Of course. And of course every social experience is a stressor. I’d rather over-socialize than under-socialize a Malinois though. I already know what undersocialized Mals can look like. I have yet to meet an over-socialized one. I suspect it can only be better. Not better than “just the right amount of socializing,” but I’m consciously erring on the side of “too much.” Maybe the stress of meeting people will do more harm than good – but I’m willing to take that risk. I would regret socializing my puppies too little. I will not regret socializing them too much or too early, even if it turns out to have less than ideal effects. To offset the stress, I’ll do substantially less in all the other aspects that many people who breed dogs do: ENS, training, surfaces etc – I’ll wrap a lot of this into my socialization or not worry about it at all. You may read this and think it is great, or you may read this and think it is a terrible idea. The thing is: there is no research that actually tells us when and how much puppies should socialize in an ideal world. I have made up my mind, and I’ll do it my way. Enjoy if you’re a fan, and don’t torture yourself by following along if it upsets you. I’ll close comments on this post to help you keep unsolicited opinions to yourselves.

I’m also realizing that I’ll end up with more than just one person a day if I keep up all the dog socialization I plan for: Charli just moved, and everyone else I’m thinking of for the next few weeks is a one-dog household, but not all of them are one-person households. Some of the folks who want to visit the puppies are even no-dog households.

On days I can’t get my desired amount of dogs by means of dog friends, I’ll seek out public places … and there, too, are likely going to be more people than dogs. It would be different if I wasn’t in the city but in a place with a higher density of free-roamers, but even within the city, the higher-free-roamer-density places are quite a drive from my house.

Day 7 (March 31, 2024)

Activities

I took the puppies on their first car ride today. Just two minutes in their snuggle crate, up and down my street. Maybe this will make it less likely for them to be carsick in the future. I wasn’t planning on already doing a car ride this week, but then thought they would benefit from going on one before I actually took them somewhere in the car. By the time we go somewhere, the car won’t be new anymore. I might need to drive for a few minutes on some days to meet my dog goals in week 2.

Handling/touch

Everybody got their very first nails trimmed: the very tips of the nails on their right back paws. I started while they were sleeping. Everyone did well; the only one who protested a bit was unmarked boy. The two girls were exceptionally chill.

From now on, I’ll be doing one paw on a different day and hope to get to every paw on a weekly basis. My hope is that this way, by the time the pups move out, they will have a head start on tolerating nail trims. I used human nail clippers today. For the next paw, I might use the dremel so they get used to both.

I also did my usual handling protocol and added touching lips today. Going forward, it is: stroke, paws, tail, ears, lips, stroke.

Senses

The puppies got to feel the movement of the car today, and the slightly air-conditioned car air. They also got to smell and get smelled by, and pink boy and unmarked girl even got their faces licked by, Chai. I haven’t introduced her to the puppies yet – she’s been my backup dog for week one. With her, we’ve met the goal of 5 new dogs in week one! With Pabla and Rosalba last night, the puppies also met 6 new people.

They also got to smell the diluted bleach I used to clean the puzzle mats underneath blue girl’s diarrhea spots.

Chai was ahead of the game this morning: she sleeps in the luxury kennel (aka bathroom). I’m currently camping out and sleeping with Game and the puppies in the blanket fort. When I woke up this morning, Chai had opened the bathroom door from the inside (the first time she has figured this out!), removed the barrier to the whelping suite and was lying at a bit of a distance from Game and the puppies, observing us.

Now that Chai has met the puppies, I’ll let her snuffle them – and vice versa – every day for a few seconds.

Pics and videos

It’s warm and everyone is feeling sleepy!

Notes

Blue girl has diarrhea today, so she got a little extra handling when I helped Game clean her butt. I hope it’ll go away soon and not infect the others.

Green boy is extra hungry today. He’s not been leaving the bar even when falling asleep. He’s also a big boy – he and pink boy are the biggest. His appetite takes after Game’s!

Week 1 conclusion

I can’t believe it’s already been a week! That means there are only seven more to go … this week flew by SO crazy fast!

I’ve been experimenting with another manual color-coded tracking system. This will probably look a little different every week, depending on what I’m trying out.

Here is sheet 1 at the end of week 1 (the only thing missing is the check mark next to “handling” in the notes section and a second yellow dot for Sunday.) Sharing them here in case someone finds inspiration for their own tracking system!

And below the new week, starting tomorrow. The reason that there’s only 6 green “new human” dots rather than 7 is that there was one more human than I had planned for this week. However, I suspect that I’ll go at least up to 7 next week anyways if I come anywhere close to the puppies meeting1 7 new dogs! But … we’ll see! I’m not making a concrete plan for tomorrow, but will starting Tuesday.


  1. When I say “meet” a dog, I mean being snuffled by and getting to sniff a new dog for 3-10 seconds. When I say “meet” a new human, I mean being held by them from 30 seconds to, at the very most, 15 minutes (if we are in my house.) Or being handled by them to normalize husbandry procedures, which takes a little less than 2 minutes. ↩︎

Acclimation … and everything that follows! An introduction.

Acclimation (by my definition – different trainers have different definitions!) means allowing your dog to satiate on the environment you want to play, train, work or trial in. Students often say their dog never satiates on the world, and that is likely true. But the environment you’ll be working in is much smaller than the whole world – so it’s not really a problem. Let’s imagine you live near the beach (because that’s what I found a royalty-free image of):

Royalty free image by “Pexels” from Pixabay – thank you!

Let’s further imagine you want to practice recall games in the red oval that I put on the image. In the oval, there are 4 palm trees and a bunch of sand. This is not the whole world – it isn’t even the whole part of the beach that is in the image. It’s 10 to 20m2 (about 100 to 150ft2).

Acclimation phase

In our example, acclimation would mean:

  • Keep your dog on a leash.
  • Walk the perimeter of the area you want to work in (walk along the border of the red oval in the picture above), stopping to let your dog sniff however much they want.
  • Repeat if there’s a lot to sniff until they walk with you looking bored, not sniffing anymore.
  • Go into the red oval and let them sniff every spot they want to check out. Let them pee on the palm trees. Let them pick up a shell if they feel like it. Let them roll in the sand or dig a hole. Zig-zag and walk, following their lead, around the surface area of the red oval until they have had a chance to investigate every square foot of it.
  • If they want to leave the oval, gently stop them with the leash: no need to acclimate outside the oval because that’s not where you’ll be training.
  • Walk around the small area you have defined for training, play or work until your dog is bored of it.

Engagement phase

  • ENGAGEMENT is started by your dog – not by you. As the human part of the team, your job is to let the dog investigate for as long as they need to. Don’t try to distract them from smells or other interesting stimuli and activities. As long as they sniff, pee or dig, they are not done acclimating.
  • Being done looks different for individual dogs. It might look like offering to walk next to you rather than looking/sniffing around, and maintaining eye contact. In the case of my Mals, it could either be an offered sit with 5 seconds of duration eye contact, offered heeling or personal play initiated by the dog.
  • Go with whatever engagement behavior your dog naturally offers!

    Let’s imagine the behavior your dog offers is walking next to you and not paying attention to the environment. Define a specific duration they need to keep up this behavior for it to count as letting you know they are done acclimating. For example, you could say: when my dog walks next to me on a loose leash, occasionally glancing up at me, for at least 10 seconds, I get to start playing, training or working.

Warm-up/are you ready? phase

Before you go into more difficult work, training or play, gauge how your dog is feeling. A good way to ask this question is to invite them to play a simple marker cue game, like tossing 4 treats back and forth for your dog to chase. Observe them: do they stay engaged throughout those 4 treats (not distracted by the environment), eat every treat at once and turn on a dime for the next one? Great! Your dog is ready to start working/training/play!

Do they hesitate, get distracted or not eat a treat? Go back to acclimation!

Note that some dogs don’t need the warm up/are you ready? phase – they can go right from engagement into work/training/play. It is still useful to practice because a dog who doesn’t need a warm up in familiar environments may still benefit from it at a new, difficult or trial environment. Having practiced it means you can just pull it out your pocket, ready to use.

Work/training/play

Use the surface area of your oval to train or play whatever you were planning to for however long you were planning to … but make sure YOU are the one who ends the fun. We want our dog to stay engaged from the first step (e.g. first treat/first marker cue) of the warm up phase until you finish your session with an “all done” cue and end-of-session ritual.

Try this the next time before you train, play or work out and about! Observe your dog’s distraction level! Do they have an easier time staying engaged throughout the session? Perfect! This strategy is a winner! Do they still struggle? We’ll dig deeper and try something else!1

All done announcement and end-of-session ritual

Don’t just stop out of nowhere and go from full-on engagement to ignoring your dog – that’s rude! It’s as if someone walked away in the middle of a conversation with you and just left you hanging, or got up in the middle of a two-person meal in a restaurant without an explanation and walked out the door.

Instead, you’ll verbally announce to your dog that the session is over (I use “All done!” for this), and then follow it up with a transition behavior that helps your dog move from a working state of mind back into a just-being-a-dog state of mind. An easy option is doing a treat scatter after your all done cue (scatters are calming). Another option is personal play or calm petting.


  1. Trying something else would, at this point, usually mean one of two things: giving the acclimation ritual itself more structure (for example with CU games or start buttons), or adding a longer and more structured “ready to work” routine after acclimation. Shade Whitesel shares a great example of a ready to work routine in this blog post. ↩︎

House training, data and gamification

If you’ve been following Chai’s diary, you probably know that she was not house trained when I got her as a foster and hasn’t learned to only go outside since then either. I suspect there is a sensitive period for learning not to pee and poop where you sleep, and Chai was confined to a small space during that time (i.e. she had no other option but to go right where she was). That’s just my best guess. I don’t know what parts of her backstory check out. I only know that some of it does not (she did not have the chip number she supposedly had, for example). The story I got was that Chai originally came from the state of Guerrero, was bred on a farm from a sheep-working sire and a pet dam, and her previous owner had gotten her for themselves but needed a foster or rehome fast due to a tragic family incident.

Assuming there actually is a sensitive period for learning not to pee/poop where you sleep would imply she did not grow up the way she supposedly did – growing up in a family/farm environment and then moving to a different family environment would not cause the pee/poop response to be repressed because there would be plenty of space to leave your sleeping spot to pee. Unless, of course, the sensitive period only happens after 8 weeks (when the previous owner supposedly got her) and she was then confined to a crate. She was in a crate when I picked her up – so maybe. I suspect it happens earlier though. I know folks who do not put effort into housetraining at all and still end up with a house trained dog – just a little later than the folks who do put in effort. That data, of course, is entirely anecdotal and my sample size is small.

Another anecdotal data point was shared with me by one of my wonderful students. Their breeder shared a video where 3 week old puppies would crawl away from the “puppy pile” when needing to go. To me, this suggests a sense of cleanliness kicking in when the puppies barely open their eyes. But again – this is a single anecdotal data point.

A second hypothesis about Chai’s past (I do not know how likely it is and it doesn’t matter) is that her previous owner told me the truth about their job: they procure puppies for pet stores. It is possible that Chai was a pet store puppy (I’ve seen these puppies; they are usually kept in the tiniest cages and definitely cannot pee/poop somewhere they don’t sleep) who aged out of the pet store without being purchased. I know pet stores sell Border Collies around here because I’ve seen them. The most popular Border Collie color in Mexico City is blue merle – not Chai’s color. She may simply not have been purchased while being tiny and cute enough to be put on sale and have gone back to the person procuring puppies after – who did not want to keep her. In that case, things would add up and this would explain why Chai still pees and poops in a crate, too, anytime the thought crosses her mind and she happens to be in her car crate. She may either have been in the pet store cage (resembling a terrarium around here) from an early age on and/or come from a puppy mill type situation, growing up confined to a space she and her mom and littermates barely fit into even before she got to a pet store. (This is not necessarily the case for pet store puppies here. Pet stores also purchase puppies from private folks whose pure-bred looking dogs happen to have puppies.)

I’m aware that I’m just telling myself these stories. I prefer to assume that people tell the truth, but there are 4 things that make me wonder in Chai’s case:

1. Chai’s chip number didn’t check out.
2. The previous owner stopped responding right after I picked her up.
3. They didn’t answer my question about Chai’s birth date (they may not have known).
4. The strange peeing behavior.
5. Her sociability (if she was a pet store puppy and got handled by folks, this would make more sense than if she hadn’t seen anyone but the previous owner between the age of 8 weeks and 4.5 months).

Is there a sensitive/critical period for no house soiling?

I’ve tried to pinpoint the elusive sensitive period of no house soiling but can’t pin it down. I have found a number of sources and meta analyses that found dogs from commercial breeding operations (“puppy mills”) and pet stores have significantly higher incidents of house soiling as adults. However, none of the studies I found went into the details in terms of whether/when there is a sensitive/critical period. I also came across an article (not a peer-reviewed study) claiming dogs who are not house trained by 1 year of age are unlikely to ever become so. Chai’s fake first birthday is in 2 days, and there’s no house training on the horizon.

Gamification

Anyways, so Chai and I have been working on this ever since I got her. I ran a gamification course – partly because I love gamification hacks and partly because I wanted to gamify the house training challenge for myself to stay on top of it – and playing is more fun in good company! So I created a 4-week peer-support course around the topic. While cheering on others, I also set myself a specific goal: I was going to play a streak game for 4 weeks.

I divided the four weeks into four 7-day streaks and came up with the following rules:

  1. During waking hours, I wanted Chai to pee more often outside than inside. Any day I accomplished this goal, I would add one turquois check mark to my weekly streak.
  2. If I got as many or less inside pees as outside pees, my weekly streak would reset and I would start over with check mark 1 of 7. Previously completed (entirely turquois) 7-day streaks would remain – only current weeks could reset.
  3. Anytime I got an outside poop (still a rare occurrance), I would automatically color the check mark for the respective day, independently of Chai’s peeing behavior.
  4. After any 7 day streak, I’d get a brownie. (Very tasty and sold for the most ridiculous price I have encountered, so it’s not something I’d usually purchase.)
  5. After four 7-day streaks (no need for them to be uninterrupted by resets), I’d treat myself to a large house plant.

Example of week 4/4.

I played in a closed group together with my amazing students. Everyone gamified one challenge or another – some of them life related, some of them dog related. The creativity of folks was truly inspiring and I LOVED how our little community cheered each other on and how our virtual group became a confidential and vulnerable space of trust, sharing and compassion. I ended up adding a second more complex life-related quest game for myself as well because playing with this group of people was so much fun. Thank you to all who participated!

Curated peeing patterns

I was aware that I influenced Chai’s peeing behavior heavily by means of taking her out as much as I’d take out an 8 week old puppy. I also always brought Game and encouraged Chai to pee (mark) over Game’s pee and then reinforced. Chai did that pretty reliably, but often only a drop or two. I put peeing on cue with the help of Game peeing first, but would occasionally only get a dry squat from Chai: turns out I had put squatting rather than peeing on cue!

Because I caused peeing outside with the help of antecedent arrangement (Game pees first) and consequences (reinforcement), I ended up with a much higher number of total pees (more pees I ended up counting were single-drop marking instances rather than actual bladder-emptying pees which still mostly happen indoors).

Anyways, I became aware of this since I counted the pees every day and realized Chai peed a lot more often than an average dog her age. So I decided to chart the 4 weeks of the game. In this chart, the inside pee number is higher than it was in the game because I added all nightly (inside) pees to it too.

Pees during the gamified month of August 2023. The number of shower pees is higher in the chart than in the game because I added the nightly pees (which I didn’t count in the game).

What does the data look like if I stop consciously influencing the numbers (playing the game)?

I suspected if I influenced Chai’s peeing behavior less (if I didn’t take her out quite as often and stopped encouraging her to mark), I’d get less daily outside pees than inside pees and a lower number of total daily pees. To test this hypothesis, I kept counting for 17 days after the game had ended. I didn’t play to win brownies anymore but just lived my life. I was right:

The reason I counted for only 17 days is that I traveled and boarded Chai starting September 18.

Finally, I wanted to visualize how the total number of daily pees was higher in the gamified condition than in the no-game condition. (Apparently, once C-s learn to graph things in spreadshits, they can’t stop.)

I used the first 17 days of August 2023 because I only had data for 17 days in September.

I was right again: clearly, more total pees in the gamified condition!

What do we learn from all this?

Nothing in particular (except how to make graphs – thank you, Zane, for helping me work out the last kink!) I still plan on ruling out medical stuff, but I suspect the reason that Chai pees smaller amounts more often while Game pees bigger amounts less often is simply that Game holds her pee until we go outside while Chai has no motivation to hold her pee inside. (She can hold her pee and will for many hours if we go exciting places, but she won’t hold it at home – she’ll go right away.)

I suspect this is just going to be what life will look like: shower pees for Chai. That’s okay. Of all the issues a dog could possibly have, this is probably the one that bothers me the least – especially as long as she keeps peeing and pooping in the shower rather than elsewhere. It just means I’ll clean the shower more often than I would otherwise. That’s not a big deal for me.

What we optimize for

A random observation here is that gamification and reinforcers cause us to optimize performance (no surprise there). The data for August shows this well. However, I did not end up optimizing what I intended (Chai’s peeing behavior outside) but my own behavior (the number of times I took her out in a day). I became aware of this quickly, but did NOT stop playing because I wanted to keep collecting brownies. So this is really interesting too (to me anyways): even if we are aware we haven’t optimized for our actual goal, we may keep our rule structure as is because we want the pay-off (in my case the brownie) and don’t see a simple way to change things around and get brownies just as easily. Brownies I would not otherwise treat myself to are a strong motivator for me, as was the visual representation of seeing my streak grow! Human behavior is fun!

Note to self (and anyone else with a human brain): cafeful what you optimize for (if you actually care about your goal!)

Afterthought

Just in case it isn’t clear: I love this dog and couldn’t love her more. I don’t care where she does her business, and I don’t care what her backstory is. I just found it interesting to think about my house training adventures and share them with you here!

Inching our way back up to off-leash distractions: difficult distraction (liver) in location THREE/3; taco and release to the distraction as a reinforcer!

Distraction recall, iteration 6L3: 1/2.0/3.C: 6th training plan adaptation, 3rd location (L3), levels 1 (hand-held long line), 2.0 (tether) and 3 (off leash) with distraction C (liver; difficult).

October 25, 2023: upwards and onwards to our third and last real-world location!

Tacos de canasta! Chai prefers them filled with chicharrón. My favorites are de papas y frijol.

We restocked on delicious tacos de canasta de chicharrón (¡5 por $MX40!) and did an easy taco recall at the Urban Enrichment Jungle yesterday. Today, it is time for the next step on our game board: recalling away from the liver distraction on a long line!

I had hoped I’d get away with Chai not knowing it was a set-up, but she did, resulting in a funny video: after my release, she went straight to the tripod (that wasn’t hidden this time) and looked for the distraction there before finding it under the trash cans (where I had put it because she keeps finding food around there in off-leash park contexts). Her long line toppled my tripod, but the phone kept recording and I picked it back up just in time to show you Chai actually finding and enjoying her liver. Achievement unlocked!

… and here’s our progress on the board:

Jumping back into the ocean where an easy taco recall awaits to recharge for the swim!

October 27, 2023: the little Border Collie keeps moving towards the treasure!

After yesterday’s easy taco recall at the Urban Enrichment Jungle, we did the tether (front-clip alternative to back tie) session in park #3 today. Chai nailed it once again! She knew it was a set-up. In the video below, you can see her check in with me twice – knowing there is a distraction has become a cue for her to ask me to call her! I wanted to let her get closer today and didn’t call in either of these instances. When I finally called, I got a turn on a dime. And then an amusing search for the distraction Chai knew was there … it just wasn’t where she thought (right by the tripod).

Plan for the next session

For our most difficult and final recall session – off leash in location #3 – I will call Chai earlier again – the first time she looks at me or at the latest when she’s at the spot she looked back the second time today. I’ll also place the camera right with the distraction next time. Chai knows these are set-ups, so why not give away the location. If we still get a single-rep success … we get to open the treasure chest!!

But first things first: let’s not forget that the very next formal recall needs to be an easy taco one. We need to charge back up for that last big challenge of the Tacos & Border Collies game!

Tacos & Border Collies: the game I didn’t know I needed but clearly did!

I better not get too cocky just because we can already see the shore! If Chai doesn’t nail a recall, her avatar will have to go back to the free taco behind the closest LL field behind and work back up from there!

October 29, 2023: wooohooooooo!

After yesterday’s easy taco recall at Los Dinamos, today, we DID it! Easy, says Chai: recalling away from a slice of dehydrated liver – a difficult distraction – at our third location is a walk in the park! She got a taco de canasta de chicharrón and an immediate “Okay” release to go find her distraction as a double-reinforcer.

I bought a second extra taco – I’ve decided that the key to the treasure chest is one last easy taco recall. Then, finally, we get my BIG reward: giving Chai off-leash freedom in the streets. I haven’t opened the treasure chest, but I know that off-leash street freedom is what’s in there!

Off-leash freedom in an urban area

If I hadn’t needed off-leash freedom as a motivator to keep me working on the formal recall, I’d have let Chai off leash on the sidewalks several months ago already. But a while ago, I said my criteria for off-leash freedom included finishing my distraction recall protocol – thinking I’d get there much faster!

When I didn’t get there as fast as expected AND decided to make my distraction recall training goal harder (not just kibble, but also liver), I also decided to wait on the off-leash freedom: I wanted something to keep me working through the protocol!

It would have been easy to allow Chai that kind of freedom sooner: she is a friendly/shy-in-the-face-of-startles dog in an off-leash world where not having a great recall on your off leash dog is culturally okay.

But no: I wanted to show my students that I could modify my protocol to teach Chai to come when called away from a VERY difficult distraction – not just kibble – with positive reinforcement. And today, I did: I met my goal!

One more easy taco recall to unlock the treasure chest, and Chai is FINALLY going to go on REAL off-leash city walks! Go puppy! Go me! Here’s to the power of the taco!

Inching our way back up to off-leash distractions: difficult distraction (liver) in location TWO/3; taco and release to the distraction as a reinforcer!

Distraction recall, iteration 6L2: 1/2.0/3.C: 6th training plan adaptation, 2nd location (L2), levels 1 (holding on to long line), 2.0 (back tie) and 3 (off leash) with distraction C (liver; difficult).

October 18, 2023: on to our second location!

New location – new post! Yesterday, Chai got an easy taco recall at the Urban Enrichment Jungle: I called her when she was already looking at me, tongue-clicked as she came running and ran away to make it more fun. She got a taco de canasta and lots of praise when catching up with me!

Today, recharged and ready for the next step in our game, we found ourselves a new location – the second one I want to proof the difficult distraction in. In this first round, Chai does not know it’s a set-up. The tripod is hidden in a hedge and I sneakily placed the liver slice when she was ahead of me; then caught up with her, long-lined her and meandered back towards the distraction. I wanted a spot that wouldn’t need a visual target this time, so we played on mowed grass. You can see Chai find the distraction by means of following her nose after recalling. I suspect it was the smell of the distraction that prompted her to check in when she did (which I used as a start button; calling her earlier than I had planned on).

(She knew to take the gap in the hedge on her way up the hill because that’s where we had come down as well.)

Difficult distraction – long line – location #3: success!

October 20, 2023: tether success (and SQUIRREL success!)

Yesterday, Chai got an easy taco recall at Urban Enrichment Jungle (no video). Today, we tackled our next distraction stage!


After our tether success – I would call it a back tie but it is actually a front tie because Chai is wearing her front-attachment harness! – we looped through the park off leash. As we were nearing the exit, I called her back informally and she didn’t come – I didn’t see the distraction that held her interest, and for some reason, my formal recall came out of my mouth. Chai turned on a dime and shot back to me; I saw she was turning away from A SQUIRREL! and emptied out the kibble left in my treat pouch for her (since I was all out of tacos) and then cued “Birds!” (the release to chase critters) and went looking for the squirrel together with her. It took us 30 seconds, but we found it and Chai had a good chase.

I wasn’t planning on using her formal recall in this kind of situation and without a taco reinforcer – but she rocked it! However, I will definitely do an easy taco recall next! Recharge, recharge, recharge!

October 21, 2023: easy taco recall in a new location

I bought tacos de pechuga de pollo con frijol y nopales at a subway stop and played at a park nearby that we’ve never been to – not the very best of ideas, it turned out, since Chai’s inital reaction told me that the meat may still have been hot when she took her reward.

I decided to make up for the potentially hot taco with another easy taco recall tomorrow before going back to our last distraction stage at location 2/3: off leash, unprotected liver!

October 22, 2021: another easy taco recall

I did another easy taco recall in the house – just calling Chai from the couch to the kitchen and surprising her with a delicious, chicken-breast-stuffed taco (no video). NOW we are ready to tackle our next challenge!

October 23, 2023: we DID it! Chai just nailed an off-leash liver recall at location 2/3!

Look how far ahead this puts us in the Tacos & Border Collies game! We’ve ventured across island #2!

Despite our detour (2 easy taco recalls before today’s off leash one), we are well on our way towards the treasure!

Our next recall will be an easy taco one – time to recharge at the shore before jumping into the ocean again! – and then we’ll tackle our third real-world location in the next post in this series!

Inching our way back up to off-leash distractions: difficult distraction (liver) in location 1/3; taco and release to the distraction as a reinforcer

Distraction recall, iteration 6L1: 1/2.0/3.C: 6th training plan adaptation, 1st location (L1), levels 1 (holding on to long line), 2.0 (back tie) and 3 (off leash) with distraction C (liver; difficult).

We’re ready to face down our nemesis – the most difficult food distraction – or so I hope! First things first though: our next session will be an easy taco recall, no distractions. We need to keep that response sharp and fun! And then … we’ll gamify!

Tacos and Border Collies, the game

Then, I will play with liver in 3 locations. I made a game board (thank you, Canva) to hopefully not skip any steps. From experience, I know that if I accidentally skip a step, Chai will outsmart me! Here’s our board: all of the steps below and we will have reached our distraction recall goal.

This is how we (plan to) beat our nemesis – the most difficult food distraction! The little Border Collie and I will hike and swim from island to island until we reach the treasure chest: it contains off-leash privileges out in the streets of Mexico City! Because hiking and swimming is hard on the body and mind, Chai needs to recharge with an easy taco recall after each distraction she masters!

October 11, 2023: rising to the first challenge on our the path!

Yesterday, we did an easy taco recall at Dead Poultry Park. Today, we went to location #1 for our third and most difficult distraction – liver – and had a successful recall on a long line!! Go Chai!!

On the path to recall success!

October 14, 2023: back tie success!

After another easy taco recall the other day, Game nailed her back tie recall in location #1/3 today! Go puppy!!!

October 16, 2023: off leash SUCCESS!

Yesterday, we went to Chapultepec and I brought my last taco de birria … unfortunately, I forgot all about it because I was there with friends. So instead of getting an easy taco recall out and about, Chai got an even easier one back home in the living room.

And today, we finally did it: our first off-leash recall success away from the most difficult distraction – liver – in our first of three real-world locations!

Go Chai, master of swimming across oceans! Tomorrow, you’ll get to recharge again:

Week 25/26ish digest: the competency of strangers and Chai’s first day back home – all is well (September 2023)!

Chai stayed with a dog sitter while Game and I went to New York and Austria. Game had a GREAT time getting to run around the Austrian countryside and did SO well on the journey – but since this is Chai’s diary, I’ll focus on her instead!

It was hard for me to leave Chai with someone I hardly knew, but I’m glad I did. I got daily photo updates (always blurry and usually in dark rooms, often showing 1/3 of a moving dog). While the photo updates weren’t useful, I am grateful for the honesty of the sitter, Gerardo.

The first morning, they let me know they could already touch her but she was still suspicious of their mother.

They texted me when Chai allowed them to take her outside for the first time 2 or 3 days later. This means that day, she allowed them to put on her harness for the first time. I’d given them the back attachment one even though it used to be my no-pulling-allowed harness. It’s faster and easier to put on though, and that mattered more to me. I’m sure they’d let her pull (their own dogs wore bungee attachments), but that’s less important than her being handled against her will. I could tell that this sitter tends to get reinforced for reliably taking dogs for walks and suspected they would even if I asked them to wait, simply because to them, walks is what it means to take good care of a dog. Which is totally legitimate; it’s just not my priority when leaving Chai with a pet sitter.

Gerardo also reported in the next day after when Chai didn’t let them take off her harness after a walk. I asked to just leave it on rather than forcing it – and they did (as evidenced by the fact that it had been partially eaten by the time I picked her up). And I repeated it was okay to not take her for walks at all and let her play in the patio with Marley instead.

Later that day, she allowed for the harness to be taken off again and Gerardo told me that too.

They also let me know when Chai ate a sandal and a leash (Gerardo had left them lying around unattended and easily accessible to my little thief). They reported that as I had asked them to, they had not punished or reproached her. (From the way it was phrased, I could tell some sort of correction would have been their default approach. That’s okay – everyone gets to have their own approach. I’m really happy Gerardo respected mine even though it probably wasn’t in line with their own philosophy. THAT is what makes a trustworthy sitter.) I just apologized and offered to replace the sandals and the leash, and they accepted.

That is all the updates I got – I don’t know if they left something out, but I appreciate the updates I did get and the fact that Gerardo humored my approach to Chai to some extent. (Did they do so at all times? Maybe; I only know they tried, and also that it is difficult to remember other people’s philosophies when you have a different one and the other person isn’t around as a reminder.)

Getting back my little Border Collie

When I picked Chai up this morning, she was SO happy to see me! This dog? She loves me just as much as I love her. Gerardo’s mother handed her over and I could tell Chai was no longer afraid of them touching her – excellent!

I find it important to trust in the competency of others and not try and control everything. That’s easy when it comes to people and their own dogs: after all, folks get to raise their dogs in whatever way they want.

But relative strangers and my dogs? This is difficult for me, especially with a dog like Chai who is less than a year old. It is important to me that things be done a certain way when it comes to my own puppies. I am proud of myself for having left her in Gerardo’s care and not having been disappointed! Thank you, Gerardo, for further tipping my scale towards trusting in the competency of strangers.

Chai was shedding extremely when I picked her up. When I had dropped her off, she had just begun to shed. By now, she is really blowing her coat! In Game, this will often happen before she goes into heat. I’m curious to see if it will be true for Chai too!

Notes on Chai’s behavior post sitting

+ Chai didn’t pull on her leash more than normal when we walked home from the dog sitter’s. Yay!

+ She responded to dogs and people in the street just like she used to: curious or indifferent. Again: yay!

+ She was extremely cheerful and looked like she was smiling the whole way home. When we met one of her friends (a mix she knows from the park), she got very excited! Overall, she looks bigger and seems more confident to me. That might just be me – in any case, I believe the experience of staying with Gerardo and their mom for a week was a good one for both of us.

+ She peed outside and got treats, and also in the shower (her bathroom) back home – not in my living room! She was happy to see Game … but not nearly as excited as when she first saw me and could hardly contain herself. Except for Phoebe, none of my dogs have been THIS excited to see me after a longer absence. It felt good: a dog’s way of loving a human, turned all the way up.

+ She was as confident as ever going into a large pet store and navigating a busy intersection – she’s her old self and I’m SO happy to have her back!

+ Chai stayed home alone for Game’s noon loop. No vocalizing and no problem – this, too, is something she hasn’t forgotten! I’m really, really happy how well her dog sitting experience went and left Gerardo a nice review.

Harness switcheroo

I decided to switch my harness contexts around after Chai had already had a pet sitting experience where she likely pulled on her (previously no-pull) back clip harness: from now on, the front clip harness (inherently less comfortable to pull in) will be my no-pull harness and the back clip one is “pulling allowed” (within reason). The circles on her back-clip harness haven’t significantly decreased pulling (not that Chai pulls a lot to begin with), so at some point, you’ll have to recognize that a particular method isn’t the one for the dog in front of you: Chai LIKES running circles while I don’t like circling for the sake of circling. The front-clip harness makes circling less fun which should be setting us up for more success.

Btw, the reason I originally started with a back-clip harness as the no-pull one was that I bought the first cheap puppy harness I came across right after getting her. (She had neither a collar, a harness nor a leash when she came to me as a foster because she hadn’t left her previous human’s house, so there was no need for equipment.) That first one I saw just happened to be a back-clip harness, so that’s what I got.

Week 23 digest: September 3-9, 2023

September 3, 2023: a play date for Chai

Activity level: average

The AM

We only spent 15 minutes at the almost empty Fresa Parque: Game crashed into a park table/chair, whined and stopped putting weight on her left front paw. So we headed right back home, she got a dose of Rimadyl and is now sleeping on the couch. Pobrecita!

Home alone

Chai stayed home alone for Game’s shortish noon loop (trying to let her paw recover – luckily no limping for now, but I can’t tell if that’s the Rimadyl or her body recovering).

Noon and PM: Chai’s solo adventure

Once I finished work, it was time to head out and meet a colleague and their dogs for some dog geekery. Chai got to hang and play at Dead Poultry Park for 4 hours. She is passed out on the floor now! I had hoped to do some morning shaping (but work got in the way) or afternoon shaping, but I suspect we’ll just let sleeping dogs lie today! This was a lot of exercise and fun! Lucky Chai found a stinky water hole to get muddy in, played with my colleague’s dogs Hilo and Nemo, earned lots of treats for staying within a mostly approved-by-me radius, found a tasty bone and did really well hanging out next to a park bench while the humans had tlacoyos. Good puppy!

Dirty dogs are happy dogs!

September 4, 2023: a formal recall success, 3 parks and a little shaping

Activity level: average

The AM

The three of us had 25 minutes of fun at Fresa Parque. Chai got to play with a young Mal and then found something to eat somewhere behind some bushes where I couldn’t see her. (Of course, my informal pup-pup-pup recall didn’t work because found food is EVERYTHING to Chai and I am not using my formal recall in real life yet.)

Game was running around cheerfully again even though I haven’t given her a painkiller yet – looks like she’s all good! YAY! So glad! That “I am in so much pain” face and whining as she came back to me after crashing into the park chair/table really had me worried for a moment. She usually dismisses pain entirely if it happens while she’s having fun, so that was a strong reaction for her!

Home alone

Chai stayed home alone briefly while Game and I walked errands.

Solo adventure and formal recall success!

Chai and I spent 20 minutes at Toy Play Plaza. We started out by repeating last time’s recall on a long line … and succeeded! Go Chai!

Then there was a taco de birria for the bestest girl and looping around the park, briefly greeting two dogs and playing in the fountain (our personal public baby pool) twice before heading back home.

Shaping

We worked on the sit up trick. Unfortunately, I believe I got what Silvia calls an “ugly sit” again but didn’t see it in real time: Chai’s back paws weren’t facing directly forwards but to the side. I’m going to have to experiment a bit more to learn how to see the perfect position in real time!

We also worked on one object in another on the roof. The smaller container I’m trying to use instead of the last one isn’t working either … I’ll have to find something else. It may be time to go shopping for more kitchenware and look for bolitos in all the sizes! (I’m very much not someone who gets excited about shopping … unless it’s for dog-related stuff! Or plants!)

I had planned on also working on 4 in as well, but work got in the way. Hopefully tomorrow!

Kiba’s park with Game

Game, Chai and I went to Kiba’s Park to run around dogs, screaming and running kids and large umbrellas for half an hour:

They also did a lovely job waiting for me outside a pharmacy.

September 5, 2023: park time, formal recall oops and a little training

Activity level: average

The AM

We started the morning with 40 minutes of park time for Game and Chai. Mornings tend to be enrichment-based (unless Chai is in a mood to play with other dogs): both dogs will scavenge all over the park, finding scraps of what folks left behind the previous night and pieces of bread and tortilla chips the bird-and-squirrel lovers sprinkle like perfect scatters in certain areas in the morning.

Scavengers in their element! Now that Chai’s stomach isn’t as sensitive anymore, she gets to have all the food-finding fun as well.

Home alone

Chai stayed home alone around noon when Game and I went out to get Chai’s recall taco.

Solo adventure

Today’s solo adventure was short – just long enough to get a formal recall oops in! But a solo outing is a solo outing, and we’ll take it!

Tricks and obediency stuff

We worked on 4 paws in, one object in another on the roof and down/good/get it in the afternoon at Fresa Parque (no video of the last one but Chai did very well!)

PM at the park

Before it started raining, both dogs got to go back to Fresa Parque for another 40 minutes. Together with Chai’s solo outing, we’re at our solid 1.5 hour outdoors average (not counting noon and evening pee loops).

Chai found a cup of consomé and opened it for Game and herself, and they shared it. It smelled delicious and from what I could see, it tasted just that way as well.

Chai then went on to do her afternoon job: steal the balls of all the dogs in the park she could steal from to bring to me and trade for treats. She’s a busy Border Collie with a lot of jobs!

September 6, 2023: a typical BC fun-and-training day

Activity level: average

The AM

We spent 40 minutes at Fresa Parque and Chai had a good time with her park friends. Game did great taking treats for just letting everyone be, and then both dogs wrapped up with a little sniff-and-scavage fun.

Home alone

Chai stayed home alone while Game and I ran errands for 20 minutes. She hasn’t been home alone for longer periods of time lately, but we’ve been doing a good job keeping up with multiple weekly 5-30 minute home-alone sessions (without Game). Normalize, normalize and normalize again!

Trick training

We worked on 4 paws in bowl #5, sit up and placing one object into another one.

Afternoon park adventures

Chai, Game and I went to Fresa Parque, waited outside a store and practiced foot-on-leash downs at a papelería for 1.5 hrs. The walk there took us quite a bit because Chai was in the mood to pull on her back-clip harness, resulting in many, many circles! I’m really happy Game is an off leash dog, allowing me to focus on Chai when I circle!

On the walk back from the park, Chai walked partly in collar mode. I reinforced every 5 steps today – that way, I needed hardly any nose bumps even though Game was off leash ahead of us us!

At the park, Chai played a bit with two new dogs, both her and Game scavenged and both worked on the tunnel cue since we had the dog park to ourselves. No solo adventure today, but a good day for dogs! Especially for Chai who got an easy formal taco recall (when she was already looking at me!) to super-charge “Schnee!”

Good dogs waiting patiently at the papelería while someone is trying to figure out how to print a page without margins for me.

September 7, 2023

Activity level: going for low today to catch up with work and make sure every week has its low energy day! Let’s see if we’ll succeed …

Note from the future: I succeeded! Low it is!

The AM

Game and Chai spent 30 minutes at Fresa Parque, scavenging and, in Chai’s case, playing a bit with her friend Sam the Doberman. Game got brushed at the park: she is blowing her coat and there’s Malinois fur everywhere.

Chai got bullied a bit by another dog and came back to me to be protected. I love that she trusts I will look out for her, reinforced and did my best to keep the bully at arm’s length.

Happy morning play with Chai’s friend Sam!

Training – just a little bit!

We allowed ourselves a single sit-up session. I forgot to hit record, so no video. In any case: a single sit-up session is totally okay for a quiet day! We’re still within the boundaries of calm-day-ness!

The briefest of solo adventures

We went out briefly to practice a formal recall on a back tie at our usual spot and marvelled at a squirrel together. (Tip: show your dog that you share their interests!)

Home alone

Chai stayed home alone briefly while Game and I ran an errand, and both dogs stayed home alone when I went inline skating at night.

Watching Chai on a calm day

Chai has been really good! She played a little with what’s left of the dolphin toy tonight, tossing it up in the air and pouncing on it. She has been really good about relaxing and isn’t being a pushy, demanding pup at all, but totally able to entertain herself. I’m very happy with how she’s developing!

September 8, 2023: lots of training and fun with friends

Activity level: average

The AM

We spent 30 minutes at Fresa Parque. Chai played a little with now 5-months-old little Doodle Pipa and the dogs enjoyed their urban enrichment jungle (aka finding food and sniffing stuff) for the rest of the time. I ran an experiment with soaked tortilla-chip pieces someone had left for birds and squirrels by sprinkling kibble on top. These two food items seem to be the same value.

Shaping

We had a lovely 4-paws-in-a-bowl session and a great one-object-in-another session – the best one with our new object, the nail clippers, yet!

After I worked a bit, we did sit up on the floor and then I shaped a sit on a crate. I hope the crate is narrow enough to “force” Chai to keep her back legs facing forwards which, in turn, would allow me to work on the sit up trick ON that platform:

The video above ends right where I should have ended the session. Start to finish sit on a platform – perfect. Leave it at that; take the fact that a treat got stuck under my suitcase kitchen door as a good moment to end.

That’s not what happened in real life. See me continue for a few more minutes and Chai’s response below!

Solo adventure

Chai and I went to Kiba’s park to meet up with Alan. I got another successful recall away from Kiba before saying hi and we both worked our pups – Alan on leg weaves and downs and me on downs and stands, and both girls got to play single-toy fetch with Kiba’s ball.

We walked part of the way back in collar mode (5-20 steps between treats).

Chai also met Loki, a mix she enjoys playing with (see middle picture below), and found a dog food bag to climb into. Maybe she’s telling me to change our kibble brand!

September 9, 2023: out of the city with friends!

Activity level: high physical

Both dogs got their own morning loops today and then hung out at the house while I worked a little. Before it was time to leave on Chai’s solo adventure, Game got another brief pee loop by herself.

Solo adventure at Los Dinamos

Kristen, Kala, Luca, Chai and I went to Los Dinamos for the better part of the day. Chai and Kala played A LOT. Chai saw horses and mules – both grazing freely and with horseback riders – sheep, goats, got rushed by 4 of the shepherd’s dogs and recovered fast, saw various groups of suddenly appearing people and had no feelings about them, rolled in horse poop, played in the river and ate parts of an apparently delicious head- and partially legless rotten animal. It was mostly skeleton with little flakes of rotten meat stuck to it – probably either a small sheep or a mid-sized dog? I don’t know, but on the drive home, the entire car smelled deliciously corpse-like. Chai did not throw up on the drive there and back and did not get frustrated about Kala being squeezed in right next to her crate before getting to properly greet her. She was gentle with Luca and didn’t bother him at all, and interested in sticks and stones a kid tossed into the river for Kala and her. She also did an excellent C-runs-away easy taco recall – meaning the next one gets to be a distraction one again! The conversation with the shepherd was fascinating, and Kristen and I had a fun time. This may be the last time we’ll hang out because they’ll be moving abroad, but we sure made the most of it!

Left: Chai and Kala explore the river. Right: Luca is practicing being the cutest boy e-ver!

The last time Chai saw a horse, she got spooked. This time, she first contemplated this mule from a distance and then decided it was safe to go closer and sniff. (I didn’t worry here because Chai’s body language lets me know I’d be able to call her off and the mule doesn’t mind her presence.)

Chai and Kala came across a flock of sheep and goats!

The flock and two of the shepherd’s 10ish dogs. They are all related and puppies are raised with the flock, like lifestock guardian dogs traditionally are. Young dogs learn from older ones. They both guard and are able to keep the flock together. When nothing is going on, they doze in the shade. They are out with their human and the flock for ~6 hours a day. I learned so much from this shepherd, who was kind enough to hang out for a bit and answer all my questions about living with sheep and dogs as a small-scale subsistance farmer.

Left: right before Chai got rushed, she got just a little too close to the flock and the dogs made it clear to her. Right: watching the sheep from a distance after the shepherd has communicated to their dogs that we are friends. Chai’s herding instinct didn’t kick in – but it’s also possible she is still recovering from getting rushed and would have reacted differently to a flock without dogs. In any case, I’d venture it is safe to say that Chai is not magnetized to sheep. In the background story I have been told, her dad is a working sheepdog, but I am somewhat doutbful about the truth of this story.


I could have spent another hour talking to them, but didn’t want to keep them too long. While what I said above is what they told me, what follows are observations and parts I pieced together based on what I’ve read on this way of life in other parts of the world – it may or may not actually be the case for this particular shepherd and their flock.

The dogs and the life of subsistance farming (observations and thoughts):

The dogs are shepherdy-looking mixes about Game’s/Kala’s size; some with slightly more coat. From what this shepherd said, they are all related – so they have puppies and the puppies learn from their parents.

It is interesting to me that the dogs who are actually used for herding by people who do this for a living are not a particular breed of herding dog or even a landrace. I’d venture the most common breed in Mexico that is widely recognized as a herding breed is Australian Cattle Dogs (they are everywhere in the city, but usually not used to herd sheep), followed by Border Collies (used to herd sheep by people who do it for fun but not by people like this shepherd) and Old English Sheepdogs (who I don’t think are used for herding, but are a popular family dog breed around here). I’ve seen Australian Cattle Dogs throughout economic backgrounds while Border Collies and especiallyOld English Sheepdogs are fancier-neighborhood-dogs. I also have seen one ACD who was actually herding, but I was only passing by. I had the impression that this dog was an actual sheepdog, not a rich person’s hobby herding pal.

I found it extremely interesting that the dogs of the shepherd we met had a bubble around the sheep. There was clearly a boundary outside of which they allowed other dogs, but inside of which they would guard. Chai overstepped the boundary and their behavior changed immediately. Once they had chased Chai back of the bubble, they went back to chilling. I asked if the shepherd had taught the concept of the bubble to their dogs, and they said no – the dogs are doing this naturally.

It was also deeply fascinating to me that the dogs seemed to naturally surround the flock, protecting them from all sides. The flock did not seem bothered by the dogs at all and the dogs seemed very relaxed. The way they surrounded the flock kept the flock together and the invisible bubble kept intruders (like Chai) out.

I asked the shepherd if Chai and I might approach a little more so we could test how she’d react to the sheep when being closer (this is just something I’ve been meaning to test). The shepherd had control of their dogs – once they invited us into the bubble, the dogs stood back. (The shepherd had a stick and used body language to communicate with the dogs, but not in an aggressive way at all – they just communicated clearly that Chai was a friend to be welcomed into the bubble.)

I would love to spend a day with this shepherd, the flock and the dogs. I wonder what their everyday life looks like: how far from the green space do they live? How much do they walk? Are they always on the move or do they stick to one general area? How often is there a potential conflict? And is it always with visiting dogs or is there also wildlife or other pets to look out for? Maybe even humans? Is everyone on the same page about the shepherd using this (public) land for their sheep? What do the dogs eat (feeding 10 mid-sized to large dogs is a lot!) Do they have other sources of income or is it based on the sheep alone – on their meat? What does community or family structure look like? How much interaction is there with the wider capitalist society a subsistance farmer, whether they want to or not, is necessarily embedded in? If this shepherd had a kid, what opportunities will the kid have? Is it necessary for the kid to work as soon as they can walk in order to feed everyone or are they able to go to school, graduate, study; choose a totally different path in life?

I am curious about all of this, but it’s not my place to ask. I’ll probably never know. From the outside, to me, it’s easy to romantisize this life: it is calm. It has nature, animals, movement and little to no technology. It is physical and human-powered, not fossil-fuel-powered, and there is so much to observe about your animals, their interactions, the people you see, the changes of the plants, birds and insects around you through the seasons. I know there is a version of me who’d enjoy this life – its physicalness; the nailing of wooden planks to create a barn; the walking. Naming and observing your dogs. Keeping their puppies (the ones who survive); seeing them grow up. Observing local plants, birds, lizards; how their behavior changes with the times of day and year …

It is easy to romanticize because I wasn’t born into this life. If I were, I might feel completely different about it – after all, as it is, I did not keep the life I was actually born into and the same thing might have happened had I been born into a different life. And spinning that thought further: the life I was born into was a privileged one that allowed me to leave it behind. If I was born into the life of subsistance farming, leaving that life may not be an option. Or it may be just as much an option as it was for me and the live I actually got! I don’t know, but I can’t help but enjoy leisurly following these threads of thought as I’m clening up this pst at 2:30AM in the morning, a day before I’ll release kt.


Check the dog social post for today’s video of Kala, Chai and Luca!

Home alone

Chai stayed home alone for Game’s morning and pre and post solo-adventure walks.

Chaiary – week 14 digest: July 3-9, 2023

July 3, 2023 (day 88 with me)

Activity level: average (low physical, high cognitive)

The AM …

We started the morning with our usual walk. Today we took our time, looped the park twice and greeted and dismissed several dogs – good puppy!

2-toy tug reinforced by fetch at Fresa Parque

We dropped Game off at home and Chai and I walked to Fresa Parque in harness mode. There, we had a lovely session of 2-toy fetch and then enjoyed the park some more before heading back home in collar mode. Chai did really well!

Later, we started shaping two tricks from Silvia Trkman‘s first to-do list: “Earn it!” in the apartment and a 2-front-paw target on the roof. Chai is a dog who is happy to keep working and shaping for a long time. She reminds me of the first time I took Sue Ailsby‘s shaping class with Phoebe: we could work and work and work and she wouldn’t tire; I could have spent all day shaping. Chai, at her current age, is like that too – SO much fun!

Staying home alone

She then stayed home alone for Game’s early-afternoon walks and while Game accompanied me for a hair cut.

During Game’s evening walk, Chai got to practice staying home alone a second time.

More shaping!

After coming home, I continued Chai’s 2-paw target shaping. We ended with a relatively consistent 1-paw on the target and will progress to 2 paws tomorrow … I’ve already fed her almost twice her meal in today’s shaping sessions so it’s probably time to stop.

Prepositions for announcements

Today, I started adding prepositions to the announcements I’ve been using for Chai. Is she going to learn and understand them? I don’t know but I assume that with time and context, she will. And even if she doesn’t – striving for the greatest possible clarity when communicating with our dogs (or anyone else) is a worthwhile pursuit in any case.

House training adventures

I am proud to report that our streak continues! Week one of the game couldn’t be going any better! If I make it two more days, I’ll treat myself to a fancy browny – and then we start week 2! Sadly, Chai’s diarrhea is back as well. Here’s to making the shower her default pooping spot! She went there by herself, too.

July 4, 2023 (Day 89)

Activity level: low

The AM …

Chai greeted a few dogs on our 2-dog morning loop and then did well on the retractable leash while Game was off leash – hardly any circles or food reinforcers needed!

Almost home, we found a creepy bouquet of artificial flowers on the ground. Magic hands and Game walking right up to investigate it for the win! If I had already had coffee, I would have turned the bouquet into a toy – but sans caffeine, I really wanted to get home and fuel up.

2 trips and one toy play session at the plaza

After a bit of work, I took Chai to our neighborhood plaza for a quick 2-toy game according to Shade‘s instructions. I’m planning to make today our “calm” day – it’s a good one because I’m meeting a friend and can leave her home. Plus I want to resist the temptation to keep shaping until the diarrhea is gone: my home remedy for diarrhea is 12-24 hours of fasting.

Chai did great walking to the plaza and back with the leash attached to her harness. I replaced most food reinforcers with brief spouts of personal play or running together and needed hardly any circles. At the park, Chai saw someone move a giant water-spouting hose – a new and interesting experience, but not a scary one! Brave puppy!

Play went well even though Chai answered the question whether she could tug without misses first with a “not really – I like my misses.” It may also have been that she expected the first play move to be a chase and was taken aback when I cued a tug.

First time off leash on the sidewalk during the day

Chai will be an off-leash Mexico City dog. When I first got her, I worked on this by means of exclusively walking her on a long line to simulate an off-leash experience (while keeping her safely on the sidewalk next to a busy car street). We’ve also been working on being an off leash city dog for about a month by taking off-leash urban walks between 2AM and 4AM when there are almost no cars in the street. (Furture me chiming in here: the nightly walks are a tradition I stopped a few days after writing this Chiary entry. It led to very tired days for me and after a month, I needed a break!) Other off-leash city dog elements:

  • Working towards a solid formal recall.
  • Practicing “Leave it” (and its generalization to stepping off the sidewalk) and …
  • “Wait” at the curb.
  • Being off leash when there is a barrier of shrubbery or parked cars between a park and the street.

My plan is to have her drag a long line – no Game present, just Chai – during the day as soon as we make it all the way through our distraction tracker for the formal recall (formal recalls are emergency breaks).

Yesterday, I made an exception to the rule of not having Chai off leash in the street during the day just yet: a neighbor’s dog came bounding down the sidewalk as we were on our way back from the plaza. Since the playful dog was running directly towards us, I unhooked Chai’s leash so she could play. They did for about a minute on the sidewalk and then I walked the last 30 meters home off leash as well. Chai didn’t leave the sidewalk. Good girl! Back to the original plan though as long as there are no playful pups around!

Staying home alone

Game and I are about to head out and meet a friend – time for Chai to be a good stay-home-alone puppy and for Game to get a bike run in!

Game, being a hipster dog for a day. We are street food people, but sometimes – usually when friends want to go OR when I want to dog-train – we head to a place like this one. And yes, of course: “somos lo que somos.

Chai did great staying home alone for 3.5 hours, and Game enjoyed a 20 minute bike ride, 2.5 hours of hanging out at a café and chewing her rawhide bone and 30 minutes of biking home on a different route.

Chai got to stay home again a second time during Game’s evening walk. We’ll count today as the calm day of the week! Our second calm day (the one to make up for last Sunday’s high activity day) might be Friday.

Housetraining

The streak continues! Wheee, it is fun to see my arrows turn green! We’ve almost made it through a week!

July 5, 2023 (Day 90)

Activity level: average (low physical, high cognitive)

The AM …

We had an uneventful morning walk.

Home alone

After work, both dogs stayed home while I bought supplies for trick training, and then Chai stayed home alone again while Game and I headed out for a bit.

Shaping, shaping, shaping!

I shaped away one day’s worth of Chai’s kibble for paw target experiments (we both love this game).

2-toy tug and fetch and waiting at the ice cream store

… then we walked in harness mode to Fresa Parque and played a short 2-toy game before being rudly interrupted by a tall barky stranger Mal mix. As by Shade’s suggestion, I tried cueing “chase” while Chai was tugging rather then after she dropped and offered eye contact to reinforce the tugging rather than the drop.

Chai then waited patiently for me as I got ice cream:

Her right ear has been in a floppy mood!

… and more shaping!

Back home, I shaped a second day’s worth of kibble away in 6 short sessions and then took Game on her evening walk while Chai stayed home alone a third time.

(And yes, there was work too in between all of this, cooking and a post-icecream nap for me.)

House training: the streek continues!

As of today, we’ve made it through an entire week without peeing in the living room! I’ve earned myself a browny! The week 1 streak in all its glory:

July 6, 2023 (Day 91)

Activity level: high average

The AM …

Our morning walk was shorter than usual because I wanted to get home and finish work before meeting Alan and Kiba for our train-and-play date. Work went fast and I had time to clicker up Chai’s daily food ration again. Shaping this dog is FUN! My way of not going overboard is only having the daily food ratio available and stopping once I’m through it (if I can help it). It’s also not one continuous session, of course – one session is either what fits in my hand or what fits in my hand plus another handful of food from my pocket. Then there’s a short break; then we might do another session.

Knowing how much and how fast juvenile dogs change, it is difficult for me not to get carried away with shaping and tricks while I have such an avid learner: there is no way of knowing whether Chai’s stamina and enthusiasm for training will be the same a week from now or once she’s an adult. (My own training stamina and enthusiasm is off the charts these days but will probably wear off a bit in the future.)

Home alone

While Chai is on pee-standby in the bathroom, Game and I are about to head out. After practicing impulse control on her mat, it’s time to give her a little outdoors freedom before Chai gets all the action again!

I used the opportunity to get my week-long streak reinforcer:

Yumm! Game (nose at top left corner) thinks so too!

2-toy tug/fetch and dog/dog play time!

Alan had to cancel our training meeting because he got sick. Instead, I recorded Chai’s toys homework for Shade sans interruptions and then Chai got to play a little bit in the dog park. I decided to go in because there were only two dogs who looked calm. Chai got them to play, and we practiced two recalls out of play for chicken. I had planned on doing this with Kiba today, but since there was no Kiba, these two playmates would do! Chai was a star – however, I’m sure this was easier than Kiba would have been. Kiba is her best buddy and hard to disengage from while Chai has never met these two dogs before and generally recalls well from strange dogs. (Still: this is the very first time I recalled her in the middle of playing – and she came back right away! Go Chai! This may actually have been an excellent step before practicing with Kiba.)

The video below shows Chai’s dog park socializing and the two formal recalls we did – the second one out of full-on play.

More paw target shaping

Back home, we took a break and then shaped for (almost) an entire second day’s meal. We now have two mostly steady paws on 3 different targets: a plastic tupperware lid, a plant saucer and a porcellain plate!

Husbandry

+ “Brush” announcement and brushing!

Toy play Silvia Trkman style

It was thundering and rain-storming and Game was scared (of the thunder). I don’t want Chai to adopt Game’s fears, so we casually played with always-out toys on the couch. There’s also a TV show running in the background … distraction training AND play! I want her to chase and tug on any toy I offer and also learn more about her favorites and preferred play style in a casual context.

(The reason Chai and I can play in this video without Game joining in is that Game is too worried about the thunder to play.)

House training

… week 2 of 4! The streak continues! If Chai makes it another 7 days without accidents in the living room (only in the shower cabin or outdoors), I’ll get another browny. After a 4-week streak – which we may or may not get to on our first attempt – I’m going to treat myself to something bigger. In any case – if all I ever win in my streak game are brownies, that’ll work for me too!

July 7, 2023 (Day 92)

Activity level: low

The AM …

I let Game and Chai run around the park a little more than usual because I’m planning on a calm day today. Chai got to greet several dogs she knows and then we walked back home – Game off leash, Chai on the retractable leash.

Shaping!

After work, we started another project for Silvia’s class: 4 in a box!

A brief 2-short-leashes pee walk

later, I headed off to co-work with a friend at a favorite queer meet-up café while Game and Chai stayed home for about 4 hours.

More shaping!

We did one more 4-in session (Chai was a superstar!) and then called it a day.

I have succeeded in keeping today a light, calm day! AND I made up for all the kibble I fed over the last two days by feeding (i.e. training) less today! (Remember my rule: one day a week has to be calmer than average. If I do a high (rather than average) activity day, I will try to balance it out with a second calm day in that same week. Tomorrow will likely be high activity again – we’re planning on a trail hike. More keep-it-calm challenges for me to come! (Calm days are the hardest for me! Seeing friends helps because it takes up time I would otherwise spend training.)

Housetraining

Streak game week 2, day 2 – we earned another green check mark! Woohooo!

Empty puppies – and empty puppies only! – get to chill on the bed.

July 8, 2023 (Day 93)

Activity level: average

Los Dinamos – finalmente!

After the briefest of morning pee walks (the dogs) and coffee (me), we made our third attempt to head to Los Dinamos, a nature park in the south of Mexico City. And we did it! Finally, nothing got in the way of our plans.

This was Chai’s first “real” nature walk – not in a city park but jumping across fallen trees, scrambling up and down hills and rocks and exploring the slippery rocks and muddy ground of a shallow river. She had a blast – and so did Game. Game loves running in spaces like this and I can tell how much she’s missed it when we go again after a longer break.

I found out that Chai doesn’t yet know she has to keep an eye on me in this kind of environment in order not to accidentally lose me. So I played a lot of hide and seek (hiding behind a tree or rock when she wasn’t looking, letting her worry just a little bit and then waiting for her to find me and celebrating with social feedback:”Yay! Did you lose me? You found me! What a good puppy!”)

Here’s an excerpt of Game and Chai adventuring at Los Dinamos:

Chai also discovered she likes to eat horse poop and found several bone parts of deceased animals to nibble on. I could “Schnee” recall her away from horse poop and successfully traded all bones for chicken. Superpuppy!

In terms of structured sessions, after first getting there and peeing (Chai), I had a 2-toy session for Shade’s class. This space felt different to her than city parks – I could see it in her slightly lower-than-usual focus. Apart from that, she did really well!

We had fun in the shallow river and both dogs got to play with a (non-training) ball in the water.

Otherwise, I just let them be dogs and run around for an hour. We met a couple suddenly appearing people and dogs – very different from the constant buzz of the city! – but Chai, after looking at me questioningly the first time it happened, did well. Game knows the drill and just curves around strangers.

Before we left, we saw a horse – someone was cantering down the trail at full speed. Game barked and wanted to give chase (a “leave it” brought her right back to me – chicken for the big girl!) Chai, who has never met a horse, barked after Game did and scrambled back to me as if she had just seen the devil. I’m looking forward to an opportunity for her to meet more horses – quiet, steady ones who are not crashing down trails! – in the future to ensure she feels neutral about them.

We headed home after only about an hour. So there is still lots of kibble left for shaping in the afternoon, and since we weren’t out very long, I don’t have to worry about overdoing it!

Shaping 4 in!

I used up the remainder of Chai’s daily food ration in two medium-length shaping sessions in the afternoon. We ended with 4 in from all the angles! Good puppy!

Pee walk and bakery

In the late afternoon, Chai and Game got to join me on a mini pee walk to the bakery around the corner, wait outside and then help explain some dog training things to the good folks at the bakery who collected my phone number for a neighbor with two barky adolescent Xolos.

Game imitated Chai’s peeing, I got my “Potty” cue in and reinforced, and we went back upstairs: the empty puppy earned living room privileges again!

Thunder

It is thundering again tonight. Not only is Chai not concerned – Game is feeling way better than last time as well!

Housetraining

Happy to report that my second brownie is getting closer …!

July 9, 2023 (Day 94)

Activity level: low average

The AM …

Given that the AM starts at midnight, I am sad to report that our AM started in a less than relaxing way: someone right around the corner must have been celebrating something (it was Saturday night), and as we came back from our night walk at around 1:45 AM, there were LOUD cohetes.

Fireworks are new for Chai: she looks at me and Game to figure out the appropriate response. So I spent the next hour counterconditioning: big boom – scatter. Big boom – scatter. Chai was happy about her scatters, ate a lot of kibble and then, before I could assess whether she was already happy about hearing big booms, the booms stopped … and we could all go back to sleep. The only one who didn’t get a lot of sleep, I’m afraid, is Game. She looks very tired this morning.

Toy skills!

We did two sessions of tugging reinforced by chase today. Chai now needs less misses in order to enjoy her tug! Good girl!

In the first session, she needed the visual of my outstretched arm with the second toy after my “Chase” cue to let go in the first chase-past-tug rep. In the second rep, she let go of her toy on a verbal “Chase” alone.

In the second session, Chai responded differently to the verbal “Tug” than to the verbal “Chase,” and she let go on the verbal “Chase” alone both times and showed prediction behaviors for chasing, with the other ball still out of sight! Woohooo! Go puppy!!!

Dog socializing

Chai also got to run around a bit and play with a bunch of dogs before we went to a café to work (me) and practice chilling on her mat (Chai). I wanted to make sure she got her need to move and greet dogs out of the way first to set her up for success.

I made sure not to tire her out during our break – I don’t want a dog who lies calmly on her mat because she is exhausted, but a dog who lies calmly on her mat because her social needs and needs to move have been met and she’s ready to watch the world go by for a bit.

Café training

We stayed for about 40 minutes, and there was a lot going on! Chai did VERY well!

Left: waiting outside while I order at the coffee shop – next to another unfamiliar dog who is also waiting for their person! Right: chilling on her mat at the café. This is a fancier place than I like going, but it’s at an wonderfully busy corner – it’s great for training.

Then we left for another round of park play and socializing before Chai got too wound up. 40 minutes of sitting relatively still at a busy corner restaurant is a lot for a young dog! We then returned to the café and I finished up my workload for the morning with Chai being a superstar again.

Here’s a post about the art of doing nothing with a video of our practice session at the café.

Home alone

Chai stayed home alone during Game’s noon and afternoon (pre-rain) walks and during her evening walk.

Housetraining

Chai peed at the park without needing inspiration or a role model to follow! You go girl!

We’re past the halfway mark for the week! Yay! And no accidents of any kind in the living room! I can smell you already, yummy brownie!